Navigating the world of romance can sometimes feel like trying to decipher a complex code, especially when it comes to figuring out if a woman is really into you.

I’m Tina Fey, the founder of the Love Connection blog, I’ve spent years studying the art of attraction and diving deep into the psychology behind it.

And I’ve identified some telltale signs that a woman is highly attracted to you.

In this article, I’ll explore eight of these signs.

Remember, reading body language and cues is just as much an art as it is a science. So, prepare to delve into the fascinating world of attraction with me.

1) Intense eye contact

The eyes are often referred to as the “windows to the soul”, and this couldn’t be more true when it comes to attraction.

Psychologists have long known that intense, prolonged eye contact is a clear sign of interest. When a woman is attracted to you, she’ll often hold your gaze for longer than usual, or might even catch herself staring at you.

This is because our eyes naturally gravitate towards those we find attractive. It’s an instinctive response that we often can’t control.

So, next time you’re talking to a woman and notice her maintaining strong eye contact with you, it might be a sign she’s more into you than you think.

2) She leans in when you speak

Ever heard of the phrase, “actions speak louder than words”? Well, body language is indeed a powerful communicator.

One clear sign that a woman is attracted to you is if she leans in when you’re speaking. This is a subconscious sign that she’s interested in what you’re saying and, by extension, interested in you.

In my personal experience, I’ve seen this to be very true. When I’m attracted to someone, I naturally want to be closer to them, to hear every word they say.

So keep an eye out for this subtle but meaningful sign.

3) She touches her face and hair often

It’s fascinating how our body reacts when we’re attracted to someone. One such reaction is the unconscious act of touching one’s face or playing with one’s hair.

When a woman is interested, she may start to touch her face more often, and play with her hair during conversation. It’s a kind of preening behavior that signals attraction.

I explore the nuances of body language and the psychology behind it in my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship. Understanding such non-verbal cues can truly revolutionize your dating life.

Personally, I’ve found myself doing the same when I’m attracted to someone. It’s an unconscious action that happens without us even realizing it.

Next time you’re talking to a woman, pay attention to these small details. They can provide valuable insights into how she feels about you.

4) She shows genuine interest in your life

Now, this might seem counterintuitive. You might think that if a woman is attracted to you, she’d want to talk about herself to impress you. But in reality, it’s often the opposite.

When a woman is truly attracted to you, she wants to know more about you. She’ll ask about your interests, your work, and even your family. She’s genuinely interested in understanding who you are as a person.

It’s an interesting paradox – when we like someone, we tend to focus more on them rather than ourselves. It’s as if we’re trying to find common ground or connect with them on a deeper level.

5) She laughs at your jokes

Laughter is not only the best medicine, it’s also a clear sign of attraction.

When a woman is attracted to you, she’ll find your sense of humor more appealing. Even if you’re not the next stand-up comedian, she’ll laugh at your jokes and appreciate your wit.

It’s a beautiful form of connection, really. I’ve always found that when I’m attracted to someone, even their silliest jokes bring a smile to my face.

So, if she’s laughing at your jokes – even the ones that aren’t your best – take it as a good sign. It’s her way of showing that she enjoys your company and is engaged in the conversation.

6) She’s not always perfect around you

In today’s world, where social media often showcases only the best parts of our lives, it’s easy to fall into the trap of always wanting to appear perfect.

But when it comes to genuine attraction, it’s often the imperfections that shine through.

If a woman is truly attracted to you, she won’t always feel the need to put on a perfect façade. She’ll allow herself to be vulnerable, to make mistakes, and to be her authentic self around you.

It’s raw, it’s honest, and it’s one of the most beautiful signs of real attraction. It shows that she feels comfortable enough around you to let her guard down.

7) She initiates contact

In the traditional dance of attraction, men are often expected to make the first move. But a woman who’s truly attracted to you won’t always wait for you to reach out.

She might text you first, or suggest plans to hang out. She might even touch your arm during conversation or lean in closer when you’re talking. These are all signs that she’s taking an active interest in getting to know you better and spending more time with you.

From my own experiences, I can tell you that when I’m really attracted to someone, I don’t hesitate to reach out first. It’s my way of showing my interest and building a deeper connection.

So next time a woman initiates contact with you, don’t brush it off. It’s a sign that she might be really attracted to you.

8) She remembers small details about you

This one hits close to home, and it’s perhaps the most heartwarming sign of them all. When a woman is truly attracted to you, she’ll remember the little things about you.

She might recall a story you told her weeks ago, or remember your favorite band even if you only mentioned it in passing. This shows that she’s not only listening to you, but she’s also genuinely interested in knowing you on a deeper level.

It might seem like a small thing, but it speaks volumes about her feelings towards you. It’s undeniably one of the most sincere signs of attraction.

So, if she surprises you by bringing up something small you once told her, take note.

It’s a clear sign she’s highly attracted to you.