“Still waters run deep,” as they say.  

A quiet countenance can conceal massive passion and depth of feeling.  

And in the increasingly loud world we live in, it’s easy to forget that many people simply aren’t verbose. 

But this doesn’t mean they feel any less than those who are fluid and colourful with words.  

They simply don’t communicate their feelings that way. 

Everything we need to know about how they feel is right there in their actions.  

So, whether it’s a platonic or a romantic relationship, here are the signs that someone truly cares about you even if they have a hard time expressing it.  

1) They are always looking out for you

We can have a lot of family members, friends, acquaintances, and colleagues, and have loving and warm feelings for them all. 

However, there are few people we actively think about and look out for.  

Someone who truly cares for you will always have your best interests front and center, and this will be obvious even in the smallest of things.  

Instead of telling you how important you are to them, they will show by consistently considering your feelings and always acting in ways to support you.  

2) They make you a priority

Some people will contact you when they have time and others will make time to get in touch. 

This is another way to know that someone cares deeply for you, even when they don’t express it verbally.  

This is someone constantly present in your life, making you a priority. Someone who keeps in regular contact and is always there when you need them.  

The fact that they are a consistent part of your life, supportive and loyal, demonstrates their deep feelings for you.  

3) They take a genuine interest 

There are many people you know who enjoy your company, think you’re cool, and find you hilarious. 

However, there are few who will take a genuine interest in you and your life. 

Because we’re all busy juggling work, family, and personal goals, and it’s impossible to go deep with everyone we like.  We reserve this for those we deeply care about.

So, another indicator that someone genuinely cares for you, even if they don’t say it outright, is that they will want to know everything about you.  

Your passions, goals, childhood, family, experiences, and your quirks will fascinate them. 

They’ll ask you questions and allow you to be vulnerable without any judgement. 

4) They pay attention to every detail

And from asking questions to remembering responses…  

Someone who cares deeply for you will pay attention to the smallest details of what you tell them. 

Whether it’s your likes, dislikes, good and bad experiences, childhood stories, whatever you tell them, they will be interested in hearing it.  

They will listen patiently and retain what you tell them. 

So, take note the next time a certain person remembers particulars of a story you told them a long time ago, it often means they hold you in the highest regard.  

5) They defend you to others

When someone cares deeply for you, it’s natural for them to be protective of you.

Not only of your person, but of your image and reputation too.  

Their feelings for you will compel them to want others to see you as they do. 

So, they will likely be one of your greatest advocates and defenders. 

And unlike more fickle relationships, their devotion to you won’t wane when you’re not around. 

In fact, your absence will probably make them even more protective of you.  

Sweet, eh. 

6) They make sacrifices for you

And their protective instincts will translate into a willingness to sacrifice for you too… 

Someone who may not articulate it but cares deeply for you will make sure they are there for you whether it’s convenient for them or not.  

This is the person you know you can call when you need help, and that they will drop whatever they’re doing to be by your side. 

Someone who will fly across continents to be with you when you’re having a crisis.  

This speaks volumes about how deeply they feel for you.  

And that’s not all they do… 

7) They sense when you’re not yourself

People who deeply care about you will be in tune with your emotions.  

They will always be aware of your expressions, read your body language, and listen to the tone of your voice to ascertain what exactly you may be feeling.  

And they will be able to sense when you’re not yourself. Sometimes (freakishly) even when they’re thousands of miles away!  

They have this connection with you because you mean so much to them.  

8) They see you for who you are

Another way to know that someone cares for you a lot, even if they don’t tell you so, is that they will make you feel seen and appreciated. 

They will take time to empathize with you and validate and support your needs, emotions, and identity.  

They will look past the superficialities in favor of going deep; and this will make you feel accepted, important, and loved. 

When someone nurtures this soul-level connection with you, you can be certain of the depth of their feelings. 

9) They’re totally present when they’re with you

How many times have you noticed people getting distracted, checking their phones, ordering more wine, etc. when you’re in the middle of a story?  

Hey, it’s understandable at times; we’ve all been in someone’s company while being a million miles away mentally.  

But when it comes to someone who cares deeply about you, when they’re with you, they’re fully present.   

They won’t be easily distracted but will give you their total focus out of interest, respect, and love.  

So, when someone is totally present with you, it should leave you with no doubt that you’re a vital person in their life.  

Now for the final sign someone truly cares about you even if they have a hard time expressing it… 

10) They put you before themselves

People can make time for you, appreciate you, be loyal to you, and always be there for you. 

However, someone who puts you before themselves is demonstrating the ultimate act of love.  

This willingness to put your needs ahead of their own indicates that you’re probably one of most important people (if not the most important person) in their lives.  

Even if they don’t shout it from the rooftops! 

Final thoughts  

Industrialist and philanthropist Andrew Carnegie said, “As I grow older, I pay less attention to what people say. I just watch what they do.” 

A wise move, after all people’s words can mislead, but their actions are always reliable indicators of their true thoughts and feelings. 

And although it’s nice to hear someone tell you how much you mean to them, if they demonstrate the behaviors above, you can be guaranteed that they care about you very deeply.  

Remember, deeds don’t lie.