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Communication

The hardest part of communication is often not grammar, but saying what we really mean in a way others can understand. These articles explore conversation, tone, phrasing, conflict, boundaries, and the everyday patterns that shape how people connect, misunderstand, and express themselves.

Communication

Sociologist Charles Derber's research on what he called conversational narcissism found that constantly steering a conversation back to yourself, even with something as small as "that reminds me of the time I—," quietly starves the other person of the attention their story needed.

We mistake the impulse to share our own story for empathy, but neuroscience and decades of conversation research suggest something darker is usually at work.