You’ve probably noticed some women click better with men than with other women.

It’s not about ditching female friendships or trying to be a “guy’s girl.” It’s more about how they communicate, understand, and behave.

These women aren’t necessarily tomboys or lacking female friends.

They just seem to vibe more naturally with men.

It’s not about being fake or manipulative; it’s just their way of connecting.

And there are specific traits and behaviors that come with it.

So, let’s explore these 10 behaviors these women often show.

It’s not about changing who you are, just understanding what makes these connections tick. Let’s break it down together.

1) Straightforward communication

One of the key characteristics of women who get along better with men is their straightforward style of communication.

Men are typically not known for reading between the lines or picking up on subtle hints.

Thus, women who can communicate their thoughts and feelings directly tend to have more successful interactions with men.

This doesn’t mean they’re blunt or rude.

Rather, they’re clear and concise, minimizing any room for misunderstanding.

This straightforward communication encourages open and honest dialogue.

It removes the guesswork and fosters a sense of trust and respect in their interactions with men.

2) Genuine interest in shared activities

A second common trait I’ve observed in women who seem to get along better with men is a genuine interest in shared activities.

For example, I have a friend, let’s call her Lisa.

Lisa has always been more comfortable hanging out with our male friends.

She loves football, not because it’s a “guy thing,” but because she genuinely enjoys the game.

When weekends roll around, Lisa is often found at the local sports bar, cheering on her favorite team with the guys.

She doesn’t do it for attention or to fit in – she does it because it’s her passion.

This shared interest creates a common ground between Lisa and her male friends.

It’s a platform for conversations, bonding and mutual respect.

3) High emotional intelligence

Women who naturally connect well with men often possess a high level of emotional intelligence.

Emotional intelligence encompasses understanding and effectively using emotions to handle stress, communicate, and resolve conflicts.

Women with robust emotional intelligence excel at navigating conversations and situations with men.

They adeptly pick up on cues, understand various perspectives, and respond in a way that emotionally resonates.

You don’t need to be a certified therapist or a mind reader to connect well with men.

It’s more about being attuned to your own emotions and those of others, and using this insight to guide your interactions in a meaningful way.

4) Respect for personal space

Respecting personal space is another trait commonly found in women who get along well with men.

In any relationship, personal space is vital.

It’s about understanding and respecting the need for independence, and the value of having time to oneself.

Men, in particular, often value their personal space and time.

Women who understand this and respect it tend to have more harmonious interactions with men.

This doesn’t mean you have to be distant or aloof.

It’s about striking a balance between closeness and allowing room for independence.

It’s about understanding that everyone needs a little time to themselves now and then, and respecting that need.

5) Confidence and self-assuredness

Confidence is a trait that resonates well with both genders, but it’s particularly noticeable in women who have successful relationships with men.

These women carry themselves with a certain strength and assurance that doesn’t go unnoticed.

They’re comfortable with who they are and aren’t afraid to express themselves openly.

This self-assuredness can be incredibly attractive to men, who often appreciate the honesty and authenticity that comes with it.

Keep in mind, confidence isn’t about arrogance or thinking you’re better than others.

It’s about knowing your worth, embracing your strengths, and not being afraid to show your true self.

6) Empathy and understanding

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others.

It’s a trait that’s universally appreciated, but it’s especially valued in relationships between men and women.

Women who get along well with men often have a high degree of empathy.

They’re able to put themselves in another person’s shoes, understand their perspective, and respond in a way that shows they care.

This heartfelt understanding can help bridge the gap between different communication styles and perspectives.

It fosters a sense of connection and trust that’s crucial in any relationship.

However, empathy isn’t about agreeing with everything someone says or feels.

It’s about acknowledging their experiences and emotions, even if they’re different from your own.

It’s about showing you care.

7) Ability to express emotions

One of the strongest bonds we can forge with someone stems from our ability to openly share our emotions.

I recall a time when I was grappling with personal challenges.

Feeling overwhelmed, I decided to confide in a close male friend.

Though it caught him off guard, our candid conversation turned out to be one of the most heartfelt exchanges we’ve ever had.

He valued my openness, and it strengthened our friendship.

Women who freely express their emotions—whether it’s joy, sorrow, fear, or excitement—often find themselves forming strong connections with men.

It’s this genuine vulnerability that fosters meaningful connections.

8) Not always needing to be right

In a world where we’re often encouraged to strive for perfection and have all the answers, it can be refreshing to meet someone who’s comfortable with not always being right.

Women who get along well with men often display this trait.

They’re open to different viewpoints and aren’t afraid to admit when they’re wrong or when they don’t know something.

This willingness to accept and learn from mistakes, or to simply not have all the answers, creates an environment of mutual respect and openness.

It’s not about lowering your standards or not standing up for what you believe in.

It’s about understanding that it’s okay to be wrong sometimes, and that there’s always room for learning and growth.

9) Valuing honesty and transparency

Honesty and transparency are qualities highly valued in any relationship, but they seem to hold a special place in the interactions between men and women.

Women who get along well with men usually place a high value on honesty.

They prefer open and transparent communication, even when the truth might be uncomfortable or difficult to express.

Honesty builds trust, and trust is the foundation of any successful relationship.

It’s about being open, upfront, and true to your word.

Bottom line—honesty isn’t about brutal truth without consideration for others’ feelings.

It’s about communicating truthfully, but also with kindness and respect.

10) Treating men as equals

At the heart of all these behaviors is one fundamental principle: treating men as equals.

Women who excel in their relationships with men understand that despite the differences in gender, at our core, we are all human beings deserving of respect, understanding, and equal treatment.

They don’t see men as adversaries to conquer or mysteries to solve.

Rather, they see them as fellow humans with their own thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

This mutual respect and equality form the basis for genuine connections and successful relationships.  

It’s about authentic connection

In essence, whether it’s sharing a joke or delving into deep conversations, forming connections transcends gender dynamics. 

These behaviors are simply road signs on the journey toward better understanding and smoother interactions. 

Whether you’re nodding along in recognition or taking notes for future encounters, remember that building meaningful connections is a blend of authenticity, empathy, and mutual respect.

Embrace your unique approach, keep an open mind, and watch those connections flourish, regardless of gender lines.

Cheers to fostering more genuine connections, one behavior at a time!