Respect and admiration – they’re not something you can just pluck off the shelf.

They’re not a product of your bank balance or the car you drive.

They’re earned, through our actions, our attitudes, and how we treat others.

Now, have you ever noticed those women who seem to effortlessly command respect and admiration wherever they go?

They’re not superhuman or incredibly lucky; instead, they consistently display subtle behaviors that make a big difference in how others perceive them.

This isn’t about grand displays of power or being the loudest person in the room.

It’s about the small, everyday habits that make others respect and admire them.

In this article, we’re going to explore these 8 behaviors – the little things that can have a big impact on how we’re seen by others.

1) They exude confidence

First things first: confidence. It’s that self-assured vibe that you can’t help but notice.

Women who command respect and admiration are usually brimming with confidence.

But here’s the thing, it’s not about being loud or showy.

Instead, it’s a quiet, inner confidence.

They know their worth and aren’t afraid to stand their ground.

They believe in their abilities and aren’t shy to share their thoughts or opinions.

This confidence isn’t built overnight, though.

It’s a product of self-love, acceptance, and constant growth.

And trust me, it’s infectious.

People around them can’t help but admire and respect their self-assured nature.

So, lesson number one: work on building your confidence. Because nothing commands respect like a woman who believes in herself!

2) They practice active listening

Next up, active listening.

Now, this might seem a bit surprising. But, hear me out.

Women who command respect and admiration are usually great listeners.

They don’t just hear; they listen, understand, and respond. They make people feel heard and valued.

When someone is talking to them, they give their full attention. No distractions, no interruptions.

And the benefit?

People feel respected and important around them.

It builds trust, strengthens relationships and guess what?

It earns them a lot of respect in return.

And here’s the next lesson: work on your listening skills.

Because when you listen to understand rather than reply, you’re already one step closer to commanding the room!

3) They express gratitude

Another key behavior is expressing gratitude.

Women who command respect and admiration are often appreciative, even for the little things.

Let me share a personal example.

I once knew a woman named Jane.

She was the type of person who would always take a moment to say ‘thank you’.

Whether it was for something big like a birthday gift or something as small as holding the door open for her, Jane would always make sure to express her gratitude.

And you know what?

People loved her for it. It made them feel valued and appreciated.

And in return, they respected and admired her.

So, don’t forget to say ‘thank you’. Gratitude is a small gesture that can have a big impact on how people perceive you!

4) They maintain a positive attitude

Maintaining a positive attitude is another common trait among women who command respect and admiration.

No one wants to be around a constant complainer or someone who always sees the glass as half empty.

Here’s an interesting fact: according to research from the Mayo Clinic, positive thinking can lead to increased life span, lower rates of depression, increased resistance to the common cold, and better psychological and physical well-being.

That is why these women aren’t just respected and admired; they’re also likely to be healthier and happier!

By maintaining a positive attitude, they not only inspire others but also boost their own mental and physical health.

Fourth lesson to take away: work on maintaining a positive attitude.

It might just win you admiration and respect while also improving your health! Amazing, right?

5) They show kindness and empathy

Now, let’s talk about kindness and empathy. These two qualities are like magnets for respect and admiration.

Women who possess these qualities have a way of touching people’s hearts.

They understand others’ feelings and show genuine concern.

They’re the ones who’ll lend you a shoulder when you’re down, or simply offer a word of encouragement when you need it.

And the beauty of kindness and empathy is that they’re universal; they cut across cultures, races, ages, and social statuses.

Everyone appreciates a kind and empathetic person.

Here’s the heartfelt truth: in a world that can often be harsh and judgemental, showing a little kindness and empathy can make a world of difference.

Lesson five: strive to be kind and empathetic. It’s about making others feel valued and loved, and in return, you’ll earn their respect and admiration.

6) They stay true to their word

Integrity is another key behavior.

Women who command respect and admiration are usually those who walk their talk. They’re reliable and trustworthy.

Here’s a little story from my own life. I have another friend, Lisa, who is one of the most respected and admired women I know.

And a big part of that comes from her integrity.

When Lisa says she’ll do something, you can bet your bottom dollar she’ll do it.

She’s never late for appointments, always delivers on her promises, and if she can’t, she’s upfront about it.

Her honesty and reliability have earned her not just respect and admiration but also deep trust from those around her.

So, the sixth lesson: Let your actions match your words.

Integrity might seem old-fashioned to some, but it never goes out of style when it comes to commanding respect!

7) They respect themselves

Alright, let’s get real here.

You can’t command respect from others if you don’t respect yourself first. It’s as simple and as raw as that.

The women who are truly admired and respected, they value themselves. They take care of their physical, mental, and emotional health.

They set boundaries and aren’t afraid to say no when they need to. They don’t let others walk over them or treat them poorly.

Self-respect isn’t about being arrogant or thinking you’re better than everyone else.

It’s about knowing your worth, loving yourself for who you are, warts and all, and not accepting less than you deserve.

Start by respecting yourself. Value who you are and others will follow suit. Because at the end of the day, respect starts from within!

8) They are continuous learners

Last but definitely not least, women who command respect and admiration are often continuous learners.

They’re always seeking new knowledge, skills, and experiences. They’re curious, open-minded, and never satisfied with the status quo.

According to a study by the Pew Research Center, lifelong learners are more likely to be involved in their community, more open to new ideas, and more engaged with the world around them.

These women aren’t just respected and admired for their knowledge and skills; they’re also more likely to be engaged and active members of their community.

This love for learning doesn’t just earn them respect; it also enriches their lives in so many ways.

So, the final lesson here is: never stop learning. Because knowledge is power, and continuous learning is a surefire way to command respect and admiration!

The bottom line

In a world where respect and admiration aren’t handed out but earned, the traits we’ve explored are key to making a lasting impression.

The women who exude those traits embody the qualities that naturally draw respect and admiration from those around them.

As Michelle Obama once said, “There is no limit to what we, as women, can accomplish.”

This quote resonates deeply with the behaviors we’ve discussed because these traits are not just about commanding respect—they’re about realizing our full potential and making a meaningful impact on others.

By embracing these behaviors, we can all take steps toward becoming the kind of person who isn’t just admired but truly respected for who they are.