6 things a woman will say when she’s falling in love with you
There’s a subtle shift in language when a woman falls in love.
Her words start to revolve around you, showing her deeper feelings, even if she hasn’t confessed them yet.
As a relationship expert and founder of the Love Connection blog, I’ve noticed specific phrases women tend to use when they’re falling head over heels.
These phrases are not manipulations, but heartfelt expressions of affection meant to pull you closer. Each word is a window into her heart and a testament of her growing love for you.
In this article, I’ll share some of these phrases that hint a woman is falling in love with you, offering you a deeper understanding of what goes on behind those beautiful eyes.
1) “We should…”
When a woman is falling in love, her language subtly shifts towards inclusivity.
Her sentences often start with “we should…”, indicating that she’s trying to spend more time with you.
This isn’t just about the tennis match you’ll have, or choosing a Netflix series to binge-watch together – it goes much deeper.
It’s about the subconscious desire to intertwine your lives and create shared experiences. It’s her way of expressing that she wants to be part of your world and for you to be part of hers.
2) “I understand how you feel…”
Empathy is the cornerstone of any strong relationship.
When a woman says, “I understand how you feel,” it’s a clear sign that she’s trying to connect with you on a deeper level. She’s not just hearing your words; she’s listening to your emotions and trying to resonate with them.
As an experienced relationship expert, I’ve seen how empathetic phrases like these can transform a budding relationship into a meaningful bond. It’s her way of saying, “I’m here for you, and I’m willing to walk in your shoes.”
To quote the wise Maya Angelou, “I think we all have empathy. We may not have enough courage to display it.” When a woman bravely decides to show her empathy, it may be a sign that she’s falling in love with you.
But of course, keep in mind that some people are just naturally empathetic, and you shouldn’t jump to conclusions based on this alone. Consider the context of how she behaves with others, and the other phrases in this list.
3) “I trust you with…”
Trust is the bedrock of love.
When a woman says, “I trust you with…” it’s a potent sign that she’s falling in love with you. It means she’s comfortable enough to let her guard down and share her vulnerabilities.
In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I delve into the importance of trust and vulnerability in forming a strong and loving bond.
When she trusts you with her secrets, her fears, or even just the password to her phone, it shows that she sees you as someone who will handle her vulnerabilities with care.
This phrase isn’t just about trust; it’s a declaration of love in its purest form. It’s her way of saying, “I’m not just giving you my heart; I’m giving you my faith.”
4) “Remember when we…”
When a woman starts reminiscing about shared memories, it’s a definite sign of her deepening feelings for you.
The phrase, “Remember when we…” is her way of revisiting moments that have bound you two together. Whether it’s a funny incident, a shared adventure, or even a minor disagreement, she cherishes every moment spent with you.
As someone who has been in the field of love and relationships for years, I can tell you that shared memories form the building blocks of a long-lasting relationship. They are the threads that weave your lives together.
When she brings up these memories, she’s not just reminiscing about the past; she’s making an emotional investment in your future together. She’s holding onto those moments because they mean something to her, and hoping that they’ll stay at the top of your mind too.
5) “I appreciate you for…”
Do you notice this woman being very thankful and appreciative of even simple things? Like little favors or compliments you do for her, or something about you like your kindness, patience, or quirky sense of humor.
Whatever it is, she’s showing you that she values what you do for her, and cherishes these qualities in you.
In my own journey of love and relationships, I’ve learned the importance of appreciation. It’s those little acknowledgments that make your partner feel seen, valued, and loved.
And that’s exactly the way she wants you to feel around her. Comments like these could be her way of trying to let you know about how she feels.
6) “I missed you…”
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and expressing that longing is a raw and honest declaration of love.
It’s not just about physical absence; it’s about emotional absence as well. She misses you when you’re not around, but she also misses you in moments when she wishes to share something with you – a funny incident, a thought, a song.
It’s a raw and honest expression of love, stripped down to its very core. It’s her way of saying that your presence matters to her, that you fill a space in her life that no one else can.
Remember, love isn’t always about being together; it’s also about longing to be together. A woman who openly admits to missing you is a woman who is likely falling in love with you.
Final thoughts
Understanding a woman’s language of love can be a fascinating journey. These phrases are just a few indicators that she’s falling for you. Remember, every woman is unique, and she may express her love in ways that are as unique as she is.
For more insights on understanding the dynamics of a relationship and overcoming codependency, do check out my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.
Love is a beautiful journey, full of nuances and subtleties. Enjoy the ride and cherish each moment. After all, it’s these little moments that weave together to form the tapestry of love.
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