In general, people who are born rich start way ahead of most people. In other words, they have a headstart.

A relatively recent report showed that being born rich is a better indicator of adult success in the U.S. than academic performance.

Still, spotting someone from a wealthy background isn’t always about the flashy car or designer clothes.

Sometimes, it’s the subtle signs that give it away. They have certain habits, attitudes, or experiences that are unique to those who’ve grown up with a silver spoon.

You know, it’s like a secret code among the rich. But don’t worry, I’m here to let you in on these secrets.

Let’s dive in!

1) Education

One of the most obvious signs that someone comes from a wealthy background is their education.

Let’s face it. Most quality education is expensive. And those from wealthier backgrounds often have access to some of the best schools and universities.

I’m not just talking about the tuition fees. There are also the overseas student exchange programs, the extra-curricular activities, and the exclusive internships.

Sure, these educational experiences offer a stellar academic foundation, but more importantly, a network of connections that can last a lifetime.

2) Travel experiences

I’ve noticed that those who come from wealthier backgrounds often have a broad range of travel experiences.

When I was in college, one of my classmates, Ben, constantly shared stories about his summer trips to Europe, ski vacations in Aspen, and scuba diving adventures in the Great Barrier Reef.

At the time, I didn’t think much of it. It was only later that I realized that these experiences weren’t typical for everyone. Most of us were excited about a road trip to a neighboring state while Ben was jetting off to another country.

These extensive travel experiences can give people a unique perspective on the world and are often a clear indicator of a wealthy upbringing.

3) Mannerisms and etiquette

Did you know that the simple act of table manners can hint at a person’s background?

Those who come from a wealthy background are often taught from an early age about the intricacies of fine dining etiquette.

From knowing which fork to use for which course, to understanding the purpose of that tiny spoon next to your dessert plate, these small details can speak volumes.

This extends beyond just dining etiquette. It’s also about their overall demeanor, their choice of words, and how they treat others regardless of their social status.

They carry an air of confidence, but it is often paired with a sense of humility and respect for others.

4) Understanding of luxury brands

While it’s easy to assume that anyone can recognize and appreciate luxury brands, it’s a different ball game when it comes to understanding the subtleties of these brands.

People from wealthier backgrounds often have a deep understanding of luxury brands, not just in terms of their monetary value, but also their history, craftsmanship, and significance.

They won’t just know that a Louis Vuitton bag is expensive, they’ll also know about the brand’s origins, the unique features of each collection, and even the name of the current creative director.

This knowledge doesn’t come from a casual interest in fashion or luxury items.

It often comes from exposure and personal experience with these brands from a young age.

5) Health habits

Ever noticed how people from wealthier backgrounds seem to have a different approach to health and wellness?

They usually have a keen interest in maintaining a balanced diet, regular exercise, and mental well-being. You’ll often find them engaging in activities like yoga, pilates, or mindfulness meditation.

It’s also common to see them opting for organic food and being conscious about the quality of what they consume. They’re less likely to be swayed by fast food and more inclined towards gourmet meals or home-cooked food using high-quality ingredients.

I guess it’s not that surprising that a study showed that those with more wealth tend to live longer than those with less.

6) Focus on experiences over material possessions

One of the most profound things I’ve noticed about some people from wealthier backgrounds is their focus on experiences over material possessions.

While they do appreciate the finer things in life, they understand that real wealth lies in the experiences they have and the memories they create.

They value travel, cultural experiences, and personal growth over accumulating things.

They see wealth as a means to enrich their lives, not just to show off or keep up with the Joneses.

It’s not about getting the latest iPhone or designer handbag, but about using their resources to live a fulfilling life.

This perspective can be both inspiring and humbling, serving as a reminder of what’s truly important in life.

7) Generosity

Growing up, I had a friend whose family was considerably better off than most.

However, what struck me wasn’t their big house or luxury cars, but their generosity.

They were the first to contribute to a community project or support a local charity.

Whenever there was a need in the community, they stepped up, not for recognition, but because they believed in helping others.

This isn’t exclusive to the wealthy, of course. But I’ve found that some of those who come from wealthier backgrounds often have a deep sense of social responsibility instilled in them from a young age.

They understand that with their resources comes the power and responsibility to make a difference. Plus, it’s often a tax write-off, too.

8) Financial literacy

One of the biggest signs of a wealthy background is financial literacy.

Empirically, financially savvy people are more likely to accumulate wealth, and those who grow up in moneyed families often learn about managing money at a young age.

They understand the importance of saving, investing, and building wealth.

They’re aware of things like interest rates, stock markets, and real estate investments.

This understanding of finances is something that sets them apart and helps them maintain their wealth in the long run.

While financial literacy should be a universal skill, it’s often more prevalent among those who come from a wealthy background.

Final thoughts

The signs of a wealthy background can be much more nuanced than a hefty bank account or a luxury car. They are often subtly embedded in a person’s habits, attitudes, and experiences.

But perhaps the most important thing to understand is that wealth isn’t merely about financial resources.

As John Foster Dulles once said, “The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with, but whether it’s the same problem you had last year.”