Strong women with a high level of self-respect never tolerate these 8 behaviors from a man

Strong women know their worth and don’t settle for less. They’ve built a high level of self-respect, and they refuse to let anyone—especially a man—undermine it.
Whether it’s in dating, relationships, or everyday interactions, these women draw firm boundaries and won’t tolerate behaviors that disrespect, manipulate, or devalue them.
What exactly do strong, self-respecting women refuse to put up with?
In this article, we’ll dive into 8 specific behaviors they’ll never tolerate from a man.
Let’s get started.
1) Disrespectful comments
It’s a universal rule: no one should tolerate disrespectful comments.
As strong women, we understand that respect is the cornerstone of any healthy relationship. And we’re not just talking about overt insults. Disrespect can be subtle and cloaked in seemingly harmless jokes or sarcasm.
I’ve seen it countless times in my career as a relationship expert. A woman might brush off a man’s snide remark as just ‘teasing.’ But let me tell you, ladies, consistent belittling or undermining, even if it’s veiled as humor, is not okay.
Whenever a man starts throwing disrespectful comments your way, remember your worth. Don’t hesitate to call him out on it. Because strong women with a high level of self-respect never tolerate such behaviors.
2) Controlling behavior
Personal freedom is something I hold dear. As a strong woman, nothing irks me more than someone trying to control my life – I bet you feel the same way.
Being supportive is one thing, but being overbearing is another. If a man starts dictating what you should wear, who you should hang out with, or how you should spend your time, that’s a red flag.
Remember the wise words of Eleanor Roosevelt: “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent”. Don’t consent. Stand your ground and refuse to let anyone control your life. That’s what strong women with a high level of self-respect do.
3) Emotional manipulation
Emotional manipulation is a big no-no in my book. As a strong woman, I’ve learned to spot the signs and refuse to play along.
Manipulation can take many forms, from guilt-tripping to gaslighting. It’s all about making you question your feelings and reality.
In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I delve deeper into this topic. It’s full of practical advice on how to identify manipulation and break free from its grip.
Here’s a spoiler: strong women with a high level of self-respect know their emotions are valid, and they don’t let anyone convince them otherwise.
4) Excessive flattery
Now, this might sound counterintuitive. After all, who doesn’t enjoy a good compliment?
But hear me out. There’s a fine line between genuine praise and excessive flattery. The latter is often a tool used by men who want to woo you into their web of influence.
Excessive flattery can make you feel like you’re on top of the world, but it can also be a sign of insincerity. It might be used to distract you from other red flags in his behavior.
Strong women with a high level of self-respect know this. They are aware that they deserve sincere compliments, not manipulative flattery. They value authenticity over sweet talk.
5) Disregards your boundaries
Setting boundaries has always been crucial for me. As a strong woman, it helps me maintain a healthy balance in my relationships.
Now, if a man continually disregards these boundaries, it’s a clear sign of disrespect. Maybe he constantly texts you late at night despite your requests not to, or insists on discussing topics that make you uncomfortable.
Whatever the case might be, strong women with a high level of self-respect know their boundaries are important. They don’t allow anyone, including their man, to cross those lines.
6) He cheats
Let’s cut to the chase. Cheating is a deal-breaker.
Betrayal in a relationship is painful. It shatters trust, and trust, once broken, is incredibly hard to rebuild.
As strong women with a high level of self-respect, we know our worth. We know we deserve loyalty, honesty, and integrity from our partners. So, if he cheats, it’s over. No ifs, ands or buts about it.
7) Dismisses your dreams
I’ve always been a dreamer. And I’ve always believed in the power of my dreams.
If a man dismisses your ambitions or belittles your goals, it’s a clear sign of disrespect. Your dreams are valid and important, and you deserve someone who supports and encourages you.
As the brilliant Eleanor Roosevelt once said, “The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”
Strong women with a high level of self-respect never allow anyone to belittle their dreams. They know their worth and they chase their dreams, no matter what.
8) He refuses to communicate
Communication – it’s the lifeblood of any relationship.
If a man refuses to communicate, whether it’s about his feelings, your relationship, or important decisions, it’s a serious problem. It leaves you in the dark, unsure of where you stand.
As strong women with a high level of self-respect, we don’t tolerate this.
We know that open and honest communication is key to a healthy relationship. And if he can’t give us that, then he’s not the man for us.
Conclusion
There you have it, the 8 behaviors strong women with a high level of self-respect never tolerate from a man.
Remember, ladies, you are worthy of respect, love, and honesty. Never settle for less than you deserve.
For more insights on maintaining a healthy relationship and overcoming codependency, check out my book Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.
Stay strong and keep respecting yourself!
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