When it comes to marriage, it’s easy to downplay our own contributions. But what if I told you that you’re probably rocking the “Wife of the Year” title without even realizing it? 

Truth is: a married woman wears many hats. There’s nurturing and caring for children. There’s doing housework and making sure her husband is well-fed. There’s also navigating the challenges in her professional realm. Come on! Men will always be men. But wives are superwomen. 

Now, forget the self-doubt and put that humility on pause because, darling, it’s time to acknowledge the signs that you’re a stellar wife – perhaps even better than you give yourself credit for. 

Let’s grab a metaphorical crown and check out these 9 signs that scream, “You’re nailing this wifey thing!”

1) You’re always there

Sometimes, the best thing you can do for a man is to just be there for him.

The essence of being a wife isn’t just about sharing a home or a last name. It’s about being there for your spouse, through the highs and lows, ups and downs.

You’re the one who listens to their rants after a long day at work. You’re the one who is there to celebrate their victories, no matter how small. You’re the one who helps them up when they’re down.

Sometimes, it can feel like you’re not doing much. But on the inside, your husband is singing “You raise me up” whenever he looks at you. 

2) You communicate effectively

Communication is the backbone of any relationship, and it’s something I’ve personally had to work on in my own marriage.

I used to keep my thoughts and feelings to myself, thinking I was avoiding unnecessary conflict. But I realized that by doing so, I was creating a barrier between us.

So, I started to share more – my thoughts, feelings, fears, and even my dreams. I found that it not only strengthened our relationship but also made me feel more connected to my spouse.

If you’re someone who doesn’t shy away from having deep and meaningful conversations, or if you, like me, have learned to open up over time, give yourself a shout-out, Mrs.! Your readiness to communicate is a distinct indicator that you’re taking your wifey job to the next level.

3) You’re a team player

If you find yourself supporting your spouse in their endeavours or working hard to build a life together, then congratulations! You’ve officially earned your “Team Player of the Year” award in the game of marriage.

Forget about scoring goals; you’re out there tackling the challenges, high-fiving your partner through life’s obstacle course. You’ve mastered the art of synchronized decision-making, probably even have a secret handshake for who takes out the trash on Tuesdays.

A successful marriage is all about teamwork. It’s about sharing responsibilities, making decisions together, and supporting each other‘s goals.

Did you know that in Sweden, couples share household chores equally, and they have one of the highest relationship satisfaction rates worldwide?

The fact you’re pulling your own weight in the marriage without complaining shows you’re doing a good job as a wife.  

4) You prioritize your relationship

Life gets busy. Between work, family, and personal responsibilities, it’s easy to lose sight of what’s truly important. But here’s where you shine as a wife.

Despite the chaos and the to-do lists, you make your relationship a priority. You set aside time for date nights, or simply catch up over a cup of coffee in the morning. You understand that nurturing your relationship is vital.

Prioritizing your relationship amidst life’s demands is a challenging task, but you do it anyway. This dedication is a sign of your commitment to your spouse and makes you a better wife than you give yourself credit for.

5) You show appreciation

Few things make a man feel loved and valued like a steady show of appreciation from his life partner.

A great wife is someone who turns “thanks” into a lifestyle – like running a 24/7 appreciation station. It’s not just a “you’re amazing” on his birthday; it’s a standing ovation for every mundane victory, like conquering the grocery store without a list or making a delicious dinner. 

Appreciation can be as simple as a “thank you” after a meal, the small note left on the fridge, or the hug out of the blue that says, “I see what you do, and I appreciate it.” Maybe your husband won’t admit it, but deep down on the inside he’s deeply moved. 

If you understand the importance of these small gestures and express your gratitude frequently, you’re definitely a better wife than you give yourself credit for.

6) You forgive and let go

Who doesn’t fight with their partner every once in a while? Disagreements and misunderstandings are part of human nature. But what sets you apart as a wonderful wife is your ability to forgive and let go.

You understand that holding onto grudges only harms your relationship. Instead, you choose to focus on the love you have for your spouse, rather than the faults. You forgive, because you know that everyone makes mistakes and nobody is perfect.

This ability to forgive and let go is a testament to the strength of your heart. And a big heart is the hallmark of a great wife. 

7) You’re a cheerleader

Supporting your spouse in their pursuits is something that comes naturally to you.

I remember when my husband decided to switch careers; it was a risky move, but I stood by him. I believed in him and his ability to succeed.

It’s not just about the big decisions, though. It’s about being their cheerleader in the little things too – a new hobby, a fitness goal, or even trying out a new recipe.

Your unwavering belief in your spouse, your ability to lift them up and encourage them, is a sign of the amazing wife you are. You’re the cheerleader they need, and that makes you a wife to die for. 

8) You celebrate their successes

Trust me, every husband can use a fan club in their home.

If you can be his loyal pep squad – celebrating his victories from big to small – then you’re giving lots of wives out there a run for their money. 

You’re not just applauding achievements; you’re reinforcing a sense of partnership and support. It’s like having a built-in fan club in your marriage, where each success becomes a shared triumph. It could be a promotion at work, a personal goal achieved, or even something as simple as finally fixing that leaky faucet.

9) You love them unconditionally

At the end of the day, what matters most is that you love your spouse unconditionally.

You love them for who they are, flaws and all. This love isn’t dependent on conditions or expectations; it’s pure, genuine, and unwavering.

Unconditional love is the foundation of any successful marriage. Your ability to provide this kind of love is the ultimate sign that you’re not just a good wife, but an incredible one.

Embrace your worth

Marriage, like any relationship, is a journey of learning and growth. It’s about embracing your strengths and weaknesses, acknowledging your efforts, and valuing your contributions.

As Audrey Hepburn once said, “The best thing to hold onto in life is each other.” So, hold onto your spouse, appreciate yourself as a wife, and cherish the love that binds you together.

Take a moment to reflect on these signs. You are a better wife than you give yourself credit for. Embrace this truth and let it strengthen your marriage even more.