We all have that one friend, right? That person who just seems to get us in a way that no one else does.

The truth is, folks, this isn’t just any friendship. This is the territory of platonic soulmates.

In my own journey through mindfulness and Buddhism, I’ve come to realize the importance of these deep, non-romantic connections in our lives.

In this article, I’m going to share with you 8 signs that you have a platonic soulmate in your life. This way, you can recognize them and appreciate the profound bond you share.

Stay with me, folks. This could be the start of understanding one of your most significant relationships a little better. It’s Lachlan Brown here, and let’s dive right in.

1) You communicate without words

We’ve all had those moments, haven’t we? Those instances where you don’t even have to speak, but your friend just gets it.

In my exploration of mindfulness and Buddhism, I’ve learned to place great value on non-verbal communication. It’s often in these quiet moments of understanding that we truly connect with others.

This is particularly true for platonic soulmates. The connection between you is so deep that words are often unnecessary. A look, a gesture, a shared silence – all can speak volumes about your bond.

It’s almost like you’re two parts of the same soul, communicating on a level beyond the verbal. If you find yourself in a friendship like this, cherish it. You might just have found your platonic soulmate.

2) You trust each other implicitly

Trust, my friends, is at the core of every meaningful relationship. And when it comes to platonic soulmates, this trust goes beyond the ordinary.

In my own friendships, I’ve found that this level of trust brings a sense of peace and security. It’s like having a safe space where you can be your authentic self without fear of judgement or betrayal.

As Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh once said, “Understanding is love’s other name. If you don’t understand, you can’t love.”

Your platonic soulmate understands you – your quirks, your weaknesses, your strengths – and loves you for all of it. They trust you, and you trust them. It’s a beautiful cycle that deepens your bond and enriches your friendship.

3) You accept each other’s imperfections

Let’s face it, fellow readers —we’re all a little rough around the edges. We all have those qualities that we’re not very proud of. But here’s the kicker: in the realm of true friendship, especially between platonic soulmates, those imperfections are sine qua non. 

Enter Buddhism’s ‘Maitri’—the concept of unconditional love and acceptance. It’s all about taking ourselves and others just as we are, flaws and all.

Your platonic soulmate doesn’t just put up with your quirks—they downright celebrate them. To them, your imperfections aren’t blemishes; they’re what make you, well, you. And guess what? You’re returning the favor.

This mutual acceptance creates a safe space where both of you can be your authentic selves, without fear of judgement or rejection. Now, that’s a sign of a true platonic soulmate.

4) You’re present with each other

Mindfulness is all about being present in the moment. And this, my friends, is a key aspect of a platonic soulmate relationship.

When you’re with your platonic soulmate, you’re not just physically there. You’re fully present, emotionally and mentally. You listen attentively when they speak, and they do the same for you.

This level of presence is not common in every friendship. It requires a certain depth of connection and mutual respect. And if you have it, that’s a clear sign you’ve found a platonic soulmate.

In the words of mindfulness expert Jon Kabat-Zinn, “The little things? The little moments? They aren’t little.” So remember to cherish these moments of presence with your platonic soulmate. They’re more significant than you might think.

5) You inspire each other’s personal growth

One of the most rewarding aspects of having a platonic soulmate is the mutual inspiration for personal growth.

In my own friendships, I’ve found that my closest friends – those who I consider my platonic soulmates – have played an instrumental role in my journey of self-discovery and personal development.

This is something I delve into in my book, “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego”. It’s about cultivating the right mindset to maximize our potential while minimizing our ego.

Your platonic soulmate should inspire you to be the best version of yourself and vice versa. It’s not about changing each other but motivating each other to grow and evolve.

If you find yourself evolving positively because of your friend’s influence, that’s a sure sign you’ve found a platonic soulmate in your life. Cherish this connection, folks. It’s truly one-of-a-kind.

6) You experience pure joy in each other’s company

In the teachings of Buddhism and mindfulness, we learn the importance of experiencing joy in the present moment. And when you’re with your platonic soulmate, these moments of pure joy become more frequent.

Listen up—whether you’re chowing down on a burger or hitting the open road for an impromptu adventure, it’s the company that counts.

When you and your buddy can find bliss in each other’s company, no matter what life throws your way, well, that’s the stuff of platonic soulmate legend.

Here’s the deal. If just being around your friend fills you with joy, even when the going gets tough, that’s a neon sign flashing “Platonic Soulmates Ahead.” It means you’ve stumbled upon someone who not only gets you but brings out the absolute best in you, too.

7) You share a deep understanding

Having a platonic soulmate? It’s not about nodding along to every little thing. No, it’s about diving deep into understanding—even when you’re butting heads.

Let’s get real here. We’re all walking, talking bundles of quirks and opinions. Disagreements are as natural as breathing. But here’s the kicker: in a platonic soulmate setup, it’s the rock-solid understanding that takes center stage.

Your platonic soulmate understands you on a fundamental level. This deep understanding fosters respect and compassion in your relationship. It allows you to navigate disagreements without damaging your bond.

8) You’re comfortable with silence

Here’s a counterintuitive sign, folks – you’re comfortable with silence when you’re with your platonic soulmate.

In our hustle-and-bustle world, we’re wired to fill every nook and cranny with noise. But here’s the thing—mindfulness is all about cherishing those quiet moments, those pockets of peace where words aren’t necessary.

Now, picture this: you and your platonic soulmate, chilling in silence. No awkward glances, no fidgeting—just pure, unadulterated tranquility.  

When you find yourself basking in the silence with a friend, don’t brush it off. Embrace it. That’s the sweet sound of a platonic soulmate connection.

Seeking your platonic soulmate: Advice for the journey

Finding a platonic soulmate can be an enriching and transformative experience, but it’s not always straightforward.

First and foremost, cultivate self-awareness. Understand your values, interests, and what you seek in a friend. Then, be open to new connections. Attend events, join clubs, and engage in activities aligned with your passions.

Don’t overlook existing friendships either—your platonic soulmate could be closer than you think.

Pay attention to compatibility, seeking individuals who share your values and outlook on life. Be patient and trust the process, knowing that meaningful connections take time to develop.

Lastly, be willing to invest time and effort into nurturing friendships. Remember, a platonic soulmate is a rare find, but with sincerity, openness, and perseverance, you can cultivate a deep and lasting bond with someone who truly understands and supports you.

To delve deeper into the wisdom of Buddhism and how it can enhance your relationships, feel free to check out my book, “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego”.

It’s a guide to understanding the principles of Buddhism, living mindfully, and maximizing your potential.

Remember, the most significant connections in life are often the most unexpected ones. So keep an open mind and heart. Who knows? Your platonic soulmate might just be around the corner. Here’s to meaningful connections and personal growth!