8 signs you have a high-value woman in your life

Tina Fey by Tina Fey | August 18, 2024, 6:14 pm

Recognizing a high-value woman in your life isn’t always as straightforward as it sounds.

The signs can be subtle, often blending seamlessly into the fabric of your day-to-day interactions.

These women are the ones who challenge you, support you, and make you a better person.

As Tina Fey, the founder of Love Connection blog and a relationship expert, I’ve had the privilege of working with many high-value women and those who love them.

Based on my experience, I’ve identified 8 telltale signs that you have one such woman in your life.

So, let’s dive in and discover these signs because knowing you have a high-value woman by your side can truly change your perspective on love and relationships.

1) She has a sense of humor

In my own relationship and those of my clients, I’ve noticed that a good sense of humor is often underrated.

But let me tell you, it’s one of the most important qualities of a high-value woman.

Life is full of ups and downs.

It’s not always rainbows and butterflies. And during those tough times, a woman who can make you smile or laugh is truly a gem.

She doesn’t take life too seriously and knows how to find joy in the little things.

She can turn a dull moment into a memorable one with her wit and charm.

When a woman can make you laugh until your belly hurts, treasure her.

In the grand scheme of things, it’s these moments of shared laughter that make life richer and more enjoyable.

2) She’s supportive

In my years as a relationship expert, I’ve seen countless relationships blossom and thrive simply because of one factor – support.

It’s a powerful thing, to know that someone has your back, no matter what.

A high-value woman will stand by you through thick and thin.

When you stumble, she won’t ridicule or belittle you; instead, she’ll extend her hand to help you back up.

She believes in you, even when you find it hard to believe in yourself.

This reminds me of a quote by the renowned author, Maya Angelou, who once said, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

A high-value woman makes you feel valued, respected, and loved – through her support. And that’s something truly special.

3) She values her independence

A high-value woman is one who cherishes her independence. She loves you, yes, but she also loves herself.

Her identity is not solely tied to the relationship; she has her own passions, interests, and goals outside of it.

She doesn’t need you to complete her; she wants you to complement her.

This kind of dynamic creates a healthier relationship where both partners can grow individually and together.

In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I delve deeper into how maintaining individuality while being in a relationship can lead to a healthier, happier love life.

So if your woman knows how to balance her love for you and her love for herself, consider it a sign that you have a high-value woman in your life.

4) She’s not always agreeable

Now, this might sound counterintuitive, but hear me out.

A high-value woman isn’t always agreeable. And that’s a good thing. She won’t nod along to everything you say just to keep the peace.

She has her own thoughts, opinions, and isn’t afraid to voice them out.

Don’t mistake this for being argumentative or confrontational.

It’s about having the courage to express her beliefs, even if they differ from yours.

It shows she respects you enough to be honest and that she values authenticity over appeasement.

Consider it a boon if your woman isn’t afraid of disagreements.

It’s a sign of a healthy relationship where both partners feel safe enough to express their thoughts freely.

5) She’s not afraid of vulnerability

Vulnerability can be terrifying.

It’s like standing naked in a room full of people. And yet, a high-value woman isn’t afraid of it.

She knows that to love and be loved, she must be willing to open up, to show her true self, warts and all.

She understands that vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a symbol of courage.

It takes guts to let someone see you – the real you – with all your strengths and weaknesses.

This raw honesty fosters deeper connections and builds trust within the relationship. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it.

6) She practices gratitude

One of the most impactful traits of a high-value woman is her capacity for gratitude.

She cherishes the small moments, expresses thanks for what she has, and doesn’t take things for granted.

In my own life, I’ve found that practicing gratitude has a way of grounding me, reminding me of what truly matters.

And I’ve noticed this same trait in many high-value women I’ve encountered.

Oprah Winfrey once captured this idea beautifully with a quote: “Be thankful for what you have; you’ll end up having more. If you concentrate on what you don’t have, you will never, ever have enough.”

7) She respects boundaries

Respecting boundaries may seem like a given, but you’d be surprised how often this is overlooked in relationships.

A high-value woman understands the importance of personal space and boundaries.

She knows that just because you’re in a relationship, it doesn’t mean you have to share every single aspect of your lives.

She won’t invade your privacy, demand all your time, or expect you to cater to her every whim.

Instead, she’ll respect your needs, your time, and your individuality.

This might be a hard truth for some, but a relationship without respect for boundaries can quickly turn toxic.

It’s not always easy to maintain that balance, but a high-value woman does it with grace and understanding.

8) She values honesty over comfort

The raw and honest truth is this: a high-value woman values honesty over comfort.

She isn’t afraid to engage in difficult conversations or face uncomfortable truths.

As Thomas Jefferson wisely put it, “Honesty is the first chapter in the book of wisdom.”

She knows that honesty is the bedrock of any meaningful relationship.

Even when the truth is hard to swallow, she would rather be upfront about it than hide it or sugarcoat it.

This doesn’t mean she’s harsh or insensitive.

Instead, she delivers the truth with kindness and respect, always considering your feelings.

A woman prioritizes honesty, even when it’s uncomfortable, that’s a clear sign of her high value.

It shows that she respects you and the relationship enough to be transparent, even when it’s tough.

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