7 signs you have a genuinely amazing woman in your life

Tina Fey by Tina Fey | August 7, 2024, 9:27 pm

In a world where genuine connections can feel like rare gems, finding a truly amazing woman to share your life with is a treasure beyond compare.

But how do you know if the woman by your side is more than just special – if she’s genuinely extraordinary?

From subtle gestures to profound actions, there are telltale signs that distinguish an amazing woman from the rest.

Join us as we explore seven unmistakable signs that indicate you’ve found a woman who truly makes your life brighter, richer, and undoubtedly amazing.

1) She’s your biggest cheerleader

We all crave that one person who’s there for us, who sees our potential even when we struggle to see it ourselves.

A remarkable woman should be your biggest supporter. She’s the voice lifting you up when you’re anxious, the reminder of your strengths when you’re down, the constant affirmation of your capability and worth.

Hey, I’m not talking about empty praise or blind allegiance. It’s about genuine belief in your abilities and what you can achieve. It’s about urging you to reach higher, to aim for your fullest potential.

Having a woman like this in your life means more than just having a partner. It means having a teammate, a confidante, a source of motivation.

2) She challenges you

Now, this might seem counterintuitive. Shouldn’t an amazing woman make your life easier, not harder?

Well, not quite. An amazing woman isn’t one who always agrees with you or lets you have your way. Instead, she’s one who challenges you, pushes you out of your comfort zone, and makes you question your assumptions.

She’s the one who isn’t afraid to disagree with you, to engage in healthy debates, to call you out when you’re wrong. Because she knows that complacency isn’t growth and only through challenges can we truly evolve.

This might not always be comfortable. It might even lead to some arguments. But at the end of the day, her challenging nature is pushing you towards becoming a better version of yourself.

3) She’s independent

An amazing woman doesn’t just compliment your life, she has a vibrant one of her own. She has her own dreams, her own passions, and she’s not afraid to pursue them.

She’s not the type to get lost in a relationship or become overly dependent. Instead, she maintains her individuality and encourages you to do the same.

This is something I’ve extensively written about in a book focused on overcoming codependency in relationships, aptly titled Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship.

She understands that a healthy relationship isn’t about two halves making a whole, but about two wholes coming together. It’s about mutual support without losing oneself.

If your woman values her independence and respects yours, it’s a surefire sign you have an amazing woman by your side.

4) She communicates openly

Being with an incredible woman means never doubting the strength of your connection. She values open, honest, and direct communication in every aspect of your relationship.

Whether it’s sharing her emotions, addressing issues, or discussing aspirations and anxieties, she believes in the transformative power of candid conversation.

I’ve learned firsthand how the absence of communication can breed misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and lingering resentment.

An exceptional woman not only comprehends this but actively practices it, ensuring that communication remains a cornerstone of your bond.

5) She respects your space

In every close relationship, having personal space is essential, and an exceptional woman understands this implicitly. She doesn’t encroach upon your privacy, nor does she neglect her own.

She respects your need for moments of solitude, time spent with friends, or indulgence in your hobbies. Simultaneously, she cherishes her own space, utilizing it for rejuvenation and pursuit of her passions.

Maintaining this equilibrium between togetherness and individuality is vital for relationship well-being. It fosters growth, both as a couple and as individuals.

So, if you’re fortunate enough to have a woman who honors this delicate balance, who neither overwhelms nor withdraws excessively, consider yourself blessed with an extraordinary partner.

6) She’s compassionate

A truly amazing woman has a heart full of compassion, not just for you but for everyone around her. She’s kind, empathetic, and genuinely cares about the well-being of others.

As Audrey Hepburn once said, “People, even more than things, have to be restored, renewed, revived, reclaimed, and redeemed. Never throw out anyone.”

From my own experiences, I’ve found that compassion is the bedrock of a deep and meaningful relationship. It’s what keeps a relationship strong during difficult times and what makes the good times even better.

If you see this trait in your woman, cherish it. It’s a rare quality that makes her truly amazing.

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7) She’s not perfect, but she’s real

In a world that screams for flawlessness, an extraordinary woman boldly embraces her imperfections. She’s far from flawless, but that’s precisely what makes her magnetic—she’s raw, genuine, and fearlessly herself.

She doesn’t wear masks or conform to societal molds. Instead, she wears her authenticity like a crown, proud of her journey and unafraid to reveal her vulnerabilities.

Sure, it’s easy to be enchanted by perfection—its allure is seductive, its facade impeccable. Yet, perfection is a fleeting mirage, often beyond grasp. What truly captivates and endures is authenticity.

So, if your woman lays bare her soul—the beauty, the flaws, the raw truth—and loves you fiercely in the same breath, that’s one amazing woman right there. 

The small things that make a woman amazing

As we look back, we’ve explored what makes a woman truly remarkable in our lives. 

Recognizing these signs means appreciating the small things that make a woman amazing. It’s about understanding that being genuine is more important than being perfect, that quiet support can mean a lot, and that relationships are about growing and understanding together.

As the wise Maya Angelou once said, “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

An amazing woman leaves an indelible impact not through what she does or says, but through how she makes you feel.

And if you’re keen on exploring this topic further and reflecting more deeply on the complexities of finding a compatible partner in life, I’d recommend watching this video by Justin Brown. His personal insights resonate deeply with what we’ve discussed here.

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Here’s to recognizing and cherishing the amazing women in our lives!

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