If a woman barks at you, she’s likely angry, and if she cries, she’s probably upset.

This is basic communication, Communication 101.

However, grasping human emotions involves more than just observing these reactions.

Spotting a woman who lacks decency and honesty can be tough, but psychology offers 8 key signs to watch for.

1) She’s a master of manipulation

Manipulation can be as subtle as the wind, yet as damaging as a hurricane.

It’s not always easy to spot, especially when you’re dealing with a master manipulator. But once you know the signs, you’ll see them everywhere.

A woman lacking decency and honesty will twist your words, make you question your memory and even make you feel guilty for things you haven’t done. She’ll use your emotions against you, all while maintaining an innocent facade.

And that’s the real kicker. She’s so good at playing the victim that you may find yourself apologizing to her when it should be the other way around.

Now, don’t get me wrong. Not every manipulative action is a sign of lacking decency and honesty, but when it becomes a pattern, it’s time to raise your eyebrows.

2) She’s a habitual liar

Lies are like weeds.

They start small, almost insignificant but before you know it, they’ve taken over your entire garden. And trust me, I’ve seen it happen.

I once knew a woman who seemed like the epitome of kindness and honesty. However, as time passed, I noticed inconsistencies in her stories. Small details that didn’t quite add up.

For instance, she’d tell me she was working late but her Instagram story would show her at a party. Or she’d say she missed my call because she was at the gym, yet her gym clothes were suspiciously fresh.

It took me a while to accept it but the signs were clear. She was a habitual liar, and that’s a telltale sign of someone lacking decency and honesty.

3) She’s frequently disrespectful

Ever noticed how birds of a feather flock together? It’s not just a saying, it’s a scientific fact. The same goes for humans. We gravitate towards people who are like us, mirroring their behavior and attitudes.

A woman lacking in common decency and honesty often surrounds herself with similar folks. But it’s not just her company that’s telling. It’s her behavior towards others.

She shows blatant disrespect, often belittling people in public or talking down to them as if they were beneath her. She has no qualms about being rude or dismissive, especially to those who can’t retaliate.

It’s a harsh reality but the way a person treats others, especially those ‘below’ them, speaks volumes about their character.

4) She lacks accountability

We all make mistakes. It’s part of being human.

But owning up to them? That’s a different ball game entirely.

A woman who lacks decency and honesty will often dodge responsibility. She’ll make excuses, shift blame, or downright deny her involvement, all to avoid facing the consequences of her actions.

She’ll weave a web of lies so intricate, it’s like she’s living in an alternate reality. And in this reality, she’s always the victim or the hero, never the villain.

It’s a tough nut to crack. Accountability is a cornerstone of integrity. If she can’t own up to her mistakes, can she really be trusted?

5) She’s always playing the victim

I’ve seen it time and time again.

A woman who lacks decency and honesty is a master at playing the victim. No matter what happens, she’ll twist the narrative to make herself look like the innocent party, even when she’s clearly in the wrong.

I once confronted a friend about a lie she’d told. Instead of owning up to it, she turned the tables on me, accusing me of not trusting her and questioning our friendship.

It was a classic deflection tactic, and I fell for it hook, line, and sinker. I ended up apologizing to her, even though she was the one who’d lied.

It was a hard lesson to learn. But now I know – if she’s always playing the victim, it’s a red flag that she may lack common decency and honesty.

6) She’s overly critical of others

Criticism is a strange creature.

In small doses, it’s useful, even necessary. But when it becomes a constant barrage, it can be destructive and harmful.

A woman lacking decency and honesty often uses criticism as a tool to belittle others, making them feel small so she can feel big. She’ll nitpick, find fault, and highlight others’ shortcomings, all while ignoring her own.

And here’s the twist. She’s not critical because she’s superior or perfect. Quite the contrary. She’s critical because it distracts from her own flaws and mistakes. It’s a smokescreen, a diversion tactic.

7) She’s constantly seeking attention

Attention is a basic human need. We all crave it to some degree.

But a woman who lacks common decency and honesty takes it to another level. She constantly seeks the spotlight, desperate for validation and praise.

She’ll exaggerate stories, create drama, or even feign illness – anything to keep the focus on her. It’s as if she believes the world revolves around her and her alone.

This constant need for attention can be exhausting for those around her. And more importantly, it often masks deeper issues of insecurity and a lack of self-esteem.

8) She lacks empathy

Empathy is the capacity to understand and share the feelings of others. It’s what makes us human.

A woman who lacks common decency and honesty often lacks empathy too. She’s unable to put herself in someone else’s shoes, to feel their pain or share their joy.

She’s indifferent to the feelings of others, focused solely on her own needs and wants.

Final thoughts

If you’ve reached this point, you’re clearly committed to understanding both the best and worst of human nature.

Decency and honesty are crucial for healthy relationships, and their absence can disrupt interactions with others.

Identifying these traits isn’t about judgment but about understanding behavior and making informed choices about who we let into our lives.

In the words of Albert Einstein, “Whoever is careless with the truth in small matters cannot be trusted with important matters”.

So, when you encounter a woman who frequently lies, manipulates, disrespects, or lacks empathy, it’s worth reflecting on the implications.

After all, we are shaped by the company we keep!