7 little things you do every day that prove you’re stronger than you realize

Olivia Reid by Olivia Reid | October 10, 2025, 5:38 am

We often underestimate ourselves, don’t we? We go about our daily lives, tackling challenges big and small, without realizing how strong we truly are.

But here’s the thing: Strength is also in the little things we do every day, the small decisions we make, and the habits we unknowingly cultivate.

In this article, I’m going to give you a new perspective on your everyday actions.

We’ll explore seven seemingly simple things you do that prove you’re stronger than you think—yes, you!

You’re stronger than you realize and, by the end of this piece, I hope you’ll see that too.

1) Rising early

It might seem like a small thing, but getting up early is an act of strength.

Think about it: Your warm, cozy bed is calling you to stay a little longer, to hit that snooze button just one more time—but you resist.

You push away the comfort and step into the challenges of a new day.

Waking up early requires self-control, discipline, and determination – key components of strength.

It’s your subconscious way of saying ‘Hey, world, I’m ready for you!’; it’s not always easy, and most probably struggle with it.

If you’re one who manages to conquer the morning regularly, it’s a clear sign that you’re stronger than you think.

2) Tackling the tough stuff first

Ah, procrastination. It’s such a familiar foe, isn’t it?

But here’s a little thing I do that helps me keep procrastination at bay—I tackle the tough stuff first.

Let me paint a picture for you: Every morning, when I sit down with my coffee and start planning my day, I look at my to-do list.

Inevitably, there’s always that one task that I dread.

It could be anything—a difficult conversation, an unwelcome assignment, or maybe just a pile of laundry—but, instead of pushing it back, I take a deep breath and decide to do it first thing.

Trust me, it’s not always easy.

However, getting that difficult task out of the way not only frees up the rest of my day but also gives me a sense of accomplishment.

If you also do this, even subconsciously, it shows your resilience and courage – your strength.

The next time you tackle that tough task first, give yourself a pat on the back.

3) Embracing change

Change can be daunting, can’t it? It’s like stepping into an unknown territory without a map.

Here’s something you might not know: Our brains are wired to resist change.

That’s right! Our beautiful, complex brains prefer the comfort of routine and predictability.

But if you’re someone who willingly embraces change, who steps out of their comfort zone and adapts to new circumstances, you’re exhibiting a great deal of strength.

You are defying your brain’s natural inclination and showing an ability to evolve.

Whether it’s as small as trying a new cuisine or as big as moving to a new city, every time you embrace change, you’re proving your strength.

4) Practicing patience

We live in a world that’s all about instant gratification.

Fast food, same-day delivery, instant messages—everything is at our fingertips.

But you know what still takes time? Goals, achievements, and dreams.

Practicing patience in a world that’s constantly rushing is a testament to your strength.

It shows that you have the discipline to wait, the resilience to keep pushing forward, and the faith to believe in your journey.

If you’re the kind of person who can patiently work towards your goals, without seeking immediate results, then you’ve got a strength that many lack.

The next time you’re waiting for that seed you planted to sprout, remember: your patience is not just a virtue, it’s a sign of your strength.

5) Asking for help

I remember a time when I thought asking for help was a sign of weakness; I believed that strength meant doing everything alone, bearing all burdens by myself.

Over time, I’ve come to realize that the opposite is true.

Asking for help actually takes a lot of strength.

It means acknowledging that you can’t do it all, that you’re human; it means being vulnerable and trusting others.

Now, when I’m struggling with something, instead of stubbornly trying to solve it myself, I reach out.

Whether it’s a friend, a family member, or even a colleague—I ask for help.

If you do this too, know that it’s a sign of strength; it means that you understand the power of collaboration and the importance of vulnerability.

6) Accepting criticism

Let’s be honest, nobody enjoys being criticized.

It’s uncomfortable, sometimes even painful, but how we react to criticism speaks volumes about our strength.

Accepting criticism with grace, using it as a tool for self-improvement rather than a weapon to beat yourself up with, showcases immense strength.

It demonstrates a willingness to learn and grow, a resilience that refuses to be broken by harsh words.

If you’re someone who can take criticism in stride, who can sift through harsh words and find the nuggets of wisdom, then you’re displaying an admirable strength.

Your ability to accept criticism is a testament to your strength.

7) Persevering

Life can be tough; it throws curveballs at us, puts obstacles in our paths and sometimes, it can feel like we’re climbing an uphill battle.

Yet,  if you’re still here, still pushing forward, still fighting—you’ve already proven your strength.

Perseverance is perhaps the most significant indicator of strength.

It’s that unyielding spirit that refuses to give up, no matter how hard the journey gets.

If you’re someone who keeps going even when things get tough, take a moment to appreciate your strength.

It’s not easy to keep going when everything seems against you, but you do it anyway.

That’s real strength—and it’s something to be extremely proud of.

The essence of strength

In the grand scheme of things, strength isn’t measured solely by the monumental feats we achieve.

It’s in the subtle, everyday actions we take, the choices we make, and the habits we form; it’s about rising early, embracing change, practicing patience, and asking for help when needed.

It’s about accepting criticism as a tool for growth and persevering despite challenges.

These seemingly ordinary acts are testament to our extraordinary strength.

Every day you’re proving your strength in ways you may not even realize.

It’s in the little victories, the silent battles you win, and the resilience you show in face of adversities.

As you navigate through life, take a moment to acknowledge your strength.

Reflect on your daily actions and see them for what they truly are—acts of courage, resilience, and strength.

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