People who always move forward in life usually practice these 8 daily habits

Avatar by Lachlan Brown | September 5, 2024, 7:00 am

There’s a clear distinction between those who seem stuck in life and those who consistently move forward. The difference? It often comes down to habits.

People who are constantly progressing don’t just stumble upon success. They cultivate daily rituals that set them up for it.

As someone who has spent years studying mindfulness and Buddhism, I’ve noticed patterns in people who truly thrive. And guess what? It’s no secret formula or inaccessible wisdom.

In this piece, I’ll be sharing eight daily habits that those who continually progress in life tend to practice. These aren’t just empty words but tried-and-true strategies that can help you navigate your journey more effectively.

If you’re ready to step into a more fruitful life, stick around. You might just find a habit – or eight – worth adopting.

1) They start their day with mindfulness

In the whirl of life’s demands, it’s easy to get lost in the details. However, those who consistently move forward know the value of taking a moment to breathe.

Beginning the day with mindfulness sets a positive tone for the rest of the day. It’s a powerful habit that successful individuals tend to practice.

Before they dive into emails or rush to the morning meeting, they sit still, close their eyes and just breathe. This simple act of mindfulness helps them clear their minds, set their intentions for the day, and prepare for whatever challenges lie ahead.

Consider it like this: It’s their way of ‘tuning’ their mental instrument before playing the symphony of the day.

This seemingly small habit has profound effects. It not only reduces stress and anxiety but also enhances focus and clarity, which are essential for progress.

2) They embrace change and impermanence

Change, as they say, is the only constant in life. Yet, many of us resist it, clinging to familiarity and comfort. But those who consistently move forward understand and embrace the concept of impermanence.

As a student of Buddhism, I’ve learned that nothing in life is permanent – not our triumphs, failures, joy, or even our pain. Understanding this can be incredibly liberating.

Thich Nhat Hanh, a renowned Buddhist monk, once said, “Thanks to impermanence, everything is possible.” This quote is a favorite of mine. It beautifully encapsulates the beauty and potential in every moment.

Those who move forward in life don’t just acknowledge this truth – they live by it. They see change not as an enemy, but as an ally. They understand that every ending is a new beginning and every setback paves the way for a comeback.

3) They practice non-attachment

This might seem counterintuitive, especially in our modern world where we’re taught to chase after success and hold onto it tightly. But those who consistently move forward have a different approach: they practice non-attachment.

In Buddhism, attachment is viewed as a source of suffering, a chain that binds us to the material world and hinders our spiritual growth. Non-attachment, on the other hand, frees us from this suffering.

Those who progress in life understand this. They strive for their goals, of course, but they aren’t enslaved by them. They maintain a healthy distance from their desires, successes, failures – even their own thoughts and emotions.

By practicing non-attachment, they allow themselves to enjoy the journey of life without being overly concerned with the destination. They are driven by passion, not obsession. They are fueled by ambition, not anxiety.

Non-attachment doesn’t mean not caring or not striving. It means striving without clinging, caring without obsessing. It’s about being in the world but not of it – and that’s a powerful way to keep moving forward.

4) They practice mindful acceptance

Life is full of ups and downs. It’s a rollercoaster ride of joys, sorrows, victories, and defeats. And while it’s natural to prefer the highs over the lows, those who constantly move forward in life have a different approach: they practice mindful acceptance.

Mindful acceptance involves acknowledging our feelings, thoughts, and experiences without judgment or resistance. It’s about allowing life to unfold as it is, not as we think it should be.

Those who progress in life don’t fight reality. They don’t ignore their pain or suppress their emotions. They don’t deny their failures or inflate their successes. They see things as they are, not through the distorted lens of biases or expectations.

By practicing mindful acceptance, they cultivate resilience and equanimity. They navigate life’s storms with grace and poise. They understand that every experience, pleasant or unpleasant, is part of the human journey.

So if you want to keep moving forward, try practicing mindful acceptance. Recognize that life is a mixed bag of experiences and that’s perfectly okay.

Remember, it’s not about what happens to you, but how you respond to it that truly matters.

5) They cultivate compassion and kindness

In our rush to get ahead, it’s easy to overlook the importance of compassion and kindness. But those who consistently move forward realize that these virtues are not just nice-to-haves; they’re essential.

These individuals understand that life isn’t a zero-sum game. They believe in lifting others as they climb, knowing that their success doesn’t have to come at the expense of others.

In my book, Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego, I delve into the transformative power of compassion and kindness. Both are central tenets of Buddhism and have been proven to enhance our overall well-being and life satisfaction.

By actively cultivating compassion and kindness, we not only contribute to a better world but also create a fulfilling life for ourselves. It’s a win-win scenario.

6) They practice mindful listening

In a world that’s always talking, listening has become a rare and undervalued skill. But those who constantly move forward understand the power of mindful listening.

Mindful listening is more than just hearing words. It’s about being fully present in the conversation, tuning into the other person’s emotions and underlying messages. It’s about creating a space of empathy and understanding, where meaningful connections can blossom.

Buddhist teachings remind us of the importance of right speech, which not only involves mindful speaking but also mindful listening. It’s about fostering open and honest communication that leads to mutual understanding and respect.

Those who progress in life aren’t just great talkers; they’re great listeners. They know that true communication is a two-way street, and they value the insights and perspectives they gain through listening.

7) They cultivate gratitude

Gratitude might seem like an overused buzzword these days, but its power cannot be overstated. Those who consistently move forward in life know this well. They’ve made gratitude a daily habit, a non-negotiable part of their routine.

Through gratitude, they focus on abundance rather than lack. They choose to see the good in their lives, even when things aren’t going as planned. This practice helps them stay grounded and positive, even in the face of adversity.

Buddhist monk Ajahn Chah once said, “If you let go a little, you will have a little peace. If you let go a lot, you will have a lot of peace. If you let go completely, you will have complete peace.” This wisdom also applies to gratitude. When we let go of our focus on what’s missing and embrace gratitude for what we have, we find peace and contentment.

Practicing gratitude doesn’t mean ignoring life’s challenges or difficulties. It’s about acknowledging the goodness in our lives and realizing that even in our darkest moments, there’s always something to be grateful for. 

8) They take mindful breaks

In a world that glorifies busyness, taking breaks might seem counterproductive. But those who continually move forward know better. They understand the importance of mindful breaks.

This isn’t just about taking a break from work or physical activity. It’s about giving your mind a break too. It’s about disconnecting from the constant noise and chatter, and reconnecting with yourself.

Mindful breaks can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths, going for a quiet walk, or simply sitting in silence. It’s about giving your mind the space it needs to rest, rejuvenate, and gain fresh perspectives.

Contrary to what our culture might have us believe, taking mindful breaks isn’t a waste of time. In fact, it can boost productivity, creativity, and overall well-being.

Conclusion

Moving forward in life isn’t about taking giant leaps or making drastic changes overnight. It’s about practicing simple, mindful habits consistently, day after day.

From starting the day with mindfulness to embracing change, from practicing non-attachment to cultivating compassion, these are the habits that can help you navigate life’s journey more effectively. They’re not just about achieving success; they’re about creating a life of meaning, fulfillment, and inner peace.

If you found these insights helpful and want to dive deeper into the wisdom of Buddhism and mindfulness, I invite you to check out my book, Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego. It’s a guide designed to help you live with more purpose, balance, and joy.

Progress is a journey, not a destination. So take it one step at a time, one habit at a time. And before you know it, you’ll be moving forward more effortlessly than ever before.

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