7 things boomers do that younger generations simply can’t relate to

Farley Ledgerwood by Farley Ledgerwood | March 19, 2025, 10:05 pm

There’s a real disconnect between Baby Boomers and younger generations like Millennials and Gen Z.

It’s not about playing the blame game – it’s just that there are certain things Boomers do that leave the younger ones scratching their heads.

From their unique approach to technology, to their puzzling perspective on work-life balance, it’s like we’re from different planets sometimes.

I’m going to break down seven things that Boomers do that the rest of us just can’t wrap our heads around.

And who knows? Maybe in understanding these differences, we can find a common ground – or at least have a laugh about it.

So, buckle up for a little generational journey. It’s time to dive into the world of Baby Boomers and explore their quirky habits that leave younger generations totally stumped.

1) Landlines and answering machines

Yes, you read that right. The very thought of a landline or an answering machine might seem like a trip down memory lane for most millennials and Gen Zs.

But for Boomers, these are not just relics from the past. They are still very much a part of their present.

While younger generations are glued to their smartphones and wouldn’t dream of being tied to one spot just to make a call, Boomers have a certain nostalgia and comfort associated with landlines.

And then there’s the charm of answering machines – waiting for the beep, leaving a message, and the anticipation of having your call returned.

Sure, technology has evolved, and we now have voicemail and instant messaging. But somehow, for Boomers, it just doesn’t have the same appeal.

So the next time you’re at your grandma’s and you hear that old-school ringtone, don’t be too quick to roll your eyes. It’s just one of those Boomer things that we younger folks can’t quite relate to.

2) Snail mail over email

I remember my parents, both proud members of the Boomer generation, taking the time to write letters by hand and send them via snail mail.

They cherished the personal touch it added and the anticipation of waiting for a reply.

Fast forward to today, and I can’t remember the last time I wrote a letter that wasn’t an email or a quick message on social media.

For me and many other younger folks, the idea of snail mail is almost alien. Why wait days for something when you can get it done in seconds?

But Boomers, like my parents, they still appreciate the ritual of it – the act of writing, finding a stamp, and walking down to the mailbox. It’s a part of their routine that they find hard to let go.

While I respect their dedication to tradition, I must admit that it’s one Boomer habit that I simply can’t relate to. The convenience and speed of digital communication have made me a permanent convert.

3) Full-time jobs with one company

Here’s something to ponder upon. Boomers are known for their loyalty to their employers, often sticking with one company for most of their careers.

This is in stark contrast to the job-hopping tendencies of Millennials and Gen Zs who are always in search of the next best opportunity.

The Bureau of Labor Statistics reported that the average Boomer held 11.7 jobs from age 18 to 48.

However, nearly half of these jobs were held before the age of 24, which means that once Boomers found a job they liked, they stuck around.

This commitment to a single employer is something younger generations find hard to comprehend. For us, changing jobs is not just about better opportunities, it’s also about gaining diverse experiences and skills.

So while we respect the Boomers’ loyalty and dedication, their one-company career path is something we find hard to relate to in our fast-paced, ever-evolving professional landscape.

4) Manual tasks over digital convenience

We live in a digital age where convenience is king. Need groceries? Order them online. Want to watch a movie? Stream it instantly. But for many Boomers, the reliance on digital technology can be overwhelming.

Many Boomers prefer doing things the old-fashioned way – manual tasks over digital convenience.

From making handwritten lists instead of using a notes app, to driving to the store instead of shopping online, their preference for traditional ways can seem puzzling to younger generations.

While there’s no denying that their methods have their own charm, it’s another Boomer habit that’s hard for us tech-loving Millennials and Gen Zs to understand.

Why choose laborious tasks when you can get things done at the tap of a button?

For us, digital convenience isn’t just about ease; it’s also about efficiency and maximizing our time. As such, the Boomer’s preference for manual tasks is one aspect we find hard to relate to.

5) The concept of privacy

Growing up, I remember my parents being extremely particular about privacy. Personal information was something to be guarded, not shared.

They wouldn’t dream of sharing their daily routines, let alone their thoughts and opinions with the world.

Contrast that with today’s younger generations, for whom sharing is second nature.

We share our lives on Instagram, our thoughts on Twitter, our opinions on Facebook. The line between public and private has blurred significantly for us.

Boomers, however, still value their privacy greatly. They are reluctant to share personal details, and the idea of broadcasting their lives online is often unsettling to them.

This difference in attitudes towards privacy is one of the major generational gaps I’ve personally experienced.

While I understand the value of privacy, the Boomer’s level of guardedness is something I find hard to relate to in our share-everything culture.

6) Physical media

Remember CDs, DVDs, and even VHS tapes? Boomers certainly do. They have a certain fondness for physical media that younger generations find hard to comprehend.

While we’re streaming music on Spotify and watching movies on Netflix, many Boomers still enjoy popping in a DVD or playing a vinyl record. There’s something about the tangible nature of physical media that appeals to them.

For us younger folk, it’s all about convenience and access. Why limit ourselves to a physical copy when we can have a virtually limitless library at our fingertips?

But for Boomers, physical media isn’t just about the content. It’s about the experience – the act of choosing a DVD, the sound of a vinyl record. It’s a nostalgic trip down memory lane that digital platforms just can’t replicate.

So while we might chuckle at their collection of CDs or their reluctance to embrace streaming, it’s important to remember that it’s just another Boomer habit that we can’t quite relate to.

7) Face-to-face communication

In an age where a significant portion of our communication happens behind screens, the Boomer’s preference for face-to-face interactions is something that stands out.

For them, nothing beats a good old-fashioned conversation. They value the connection, the nuances of body language, and the immediacy of in-person interaction.

Younger generations, on the other hand, have embraced digital communication wholeheartedly. Texts, emails, video calls – these have become our preferred means of staying connected.

While we appreciate the efficiency of digital communication, there’s no denying that it lacks the personal touch of face-to-face interactions. And this is something Boomers remind us of.

Despite our love for technology, we can’t deny the value of personal interactions – a lesson we can all take from the Boomers.

However, their dependence on it is a concept we find hard to relate to in our digitally-dominated world.

Final thoughts: It’s all about perspective

The beauty of human behavior lies in its diversity and complexity. While generational gaps can lead to differences and misunderstandings, they also provide us with an opportunity to learn and grow.

As we navigate through the maze of Boomer habits, it’s important to remember that these behaviors stem from a different time, a different context.

What we perceive as odd or outdated was once the norm for them, just as our digital dependence might seem alien to them.

These differences aren’t just about landlines or job loyalty; they’re reflections of the world Boomers grew up in. A world without the internet, where privacy was valued, and face-to-face communication was the norm.

Understanding this doesn’t just help us empathize with Boomers; it also gives us a new lens to view our behaviors.

It challenges us to question our dependence on technology and appreciate the value of manual tasks or personal interactions.

So, as we chuckle at their DVDs or shake our heads at their handwritten lists, let’s also strive to understand and appreciate these differences.

After all, they’re not just quirky habits; they’re a window into a different time, a different perspective.