If you want to feel proud of your life at 70, start focusing on these 8 things now

Farley Ledgerwood by Farley Ledgerwood | June 20, 2025, 11:35 pm

Ever caught yourself picturing a future version of you—silver hair, plenty of laugh-lines—and wondering whether he’ll look back with a grin or a grimace?

If that image has you shifting in your seat, stick with me.

Over the next few minutes we’ll explore eight focus areas that have helped countless folks arrive at their seventies feeling proud rather than puzzled.

Let’s dive in:

1. Move your body like it’s non-negotiable

I’ll start with the obvious because, well, it matters.

A brisk walk, a swim, or a half-hour of gardening keeps joints supple and the mind clear.

This is well backed by the experts at Mayo Clinic who have noted that regular exercise helps prevent or manage many health problems and concerns, including stroke, high blood pressure, type 2 diabetes, depression, and anxiety.

Two sentences of encouragement here: pick something you actually enjoy and stack it next to an existing habit—podcast while walking, anyone?

The payoff isn’t just lower numbers on the scale; it’s the energy to tackle the other seven priorities on this list.

Consistency beats intensity—aim for forty-five minutes most days rather than an epic Saturday slog.

Even modest activity done daily outperforms heroic weekend marathons.

So choose movement that fits real life, not the fantasy schedule you’ve been promising “future you” for years.

2. Cultivate lifelong curiosity

Remember how, as kids, we asked “why?” every three seconds?

Recapturing that spirit keeps the brain springy.

Whether you’re dabbling in Spanish on an app or noodling with a guitar chord, fresh learning builds cognitive reserves that fend off age-related decline.

Last winter I tried my hand at watercolor—my first attempts looked like a leaky kaleidoscope, but the delight of progress was worth every messy sheet.

Your version might be astronomy, coding, or sourdough. The point is movement of the mind, not perfection.

And if you’re wondering where to start, peek at your bedside stack: what topic keeps sneaking into your reading list?

Set a tiny daily goal: five new words of Italian or one page of a how-to manual.

That little win compounds, and before you know it you’re surprising yourself at dinner parties.

Plus, curiosity is contagious—watch how friends and family perk up when you share a quirky fact you just learned.

3. Invest in meaningful relationships

When my eldest granddaughter insists on showing me her latest chaotic finger-paint masterpiece, I’m reminded that connection trumps just about everything.

This lines up with what the folks at Harvard Health Publishing say, and they point out that social connections influence our long-term health in ways every bit as powerful as adequate sleep, a good diet, and not smoking.

Call the friend you’ve ghosted, join a local club, or simply linger over coffee with a neighbor.

Quantity matters less than quality, so aim for relationships where you can both offer and receive genuine support.

Put birthdays in your calendar and send a quick voice note instead of a text.

Rituals like a monthly game night or Sunday walk act like glue when life gets chaotic.

If you’re introverted, remember that depth beats breadth; even one trusted confidant can anchor an entire decade.

4. Master your money before it masters you

Financial stress ages a person faster than sun damage.

I’m no know-it-all, but learning the basics of budgeting, compound interest, and thoughtful spending gave me freedom to retire on my terms.

Here’s a quick mini-checklist to keep cash conversations painless:

  • Track every expense for one month—yes, every latte.
  • Automate savings so you never rely on willpower.
  • Regularly review recurring charges; cancel the digital dust-collectors.

Tackle those three and you’ll sleep better, trust me.

Once a year, run a quick fee audit on any investments—high costs drag down long-term growth.

Build an emergency fund big enough to cover three months of “keep the lights on” expenses; unexpected repairs won’t torpedo your plan.

And celebrate milestones: marking progress with a small treat keeps motivation humming.

5. Develop emotional resilience

Life will lob curveballs—job loss, illness, family drama. Building the psychological muscle to bend without breaking is crucial.

Mindfulness, therapy, or simply jotting thoughts in a journal can help you notice emotions without drowning in them.

I won’t pretend to have it all figured out, but each time I pause and label a feeling (“Ah, that’s frustration”), the storm passes faster.

Try it next time traffic turns the highway into a parking lot.

A simple breathing exercise—four counts in, six counts out—acts like a portable reset button.

Regular gratitude checks also rewire the brain toward optimism over time.

And when things get truly overwhelming, do the bravest thing of all: ask for help.

6. Give your days a sense of purpose

Back when I clocked in at a nine-to-five, purpose arrived with my job description.

Retirement forced me to write my own. Volunteering at a literacy program filled that gap—and, incidentally, upgraded my Scrabble game.

Over at Greater Good Magazine, they’ve done the digging and they suggest the importance of establishing a direction for life as early as possible.

Your purpose could be mentoring, creating art, or championing a local cause. Choose something that nudges you out of bed with anticipation.

Purpose doesn’t have to be grand; tending a community garden or mentoring one student counts.

Test-drive possibilities by saying “yes” to short-term commitments before diving deeper.

The key is matching your talents to a need—when those two intersect, motivation takes care of itself.

7. Embrace simplicity and declutter

Stuff has a sneaky way of owning us: jammed closets, overflowing inboxes, obligations we agreed to out of habit.

Last month I tackled my garage, uncovering three identical hammers—proof that clutter clouds memory.

Start small. Clear one drawer, unsubscribe from a handful of promotional emails, or say “no” to an invitation that doesn’t light you up.

The physical and mental space you earn becomes fertile ground for hobbies, relaxation, and, dare I say, spontaneity.

The 20-20 rule helps: if it costs under twenty dollars and can be replaced in under twenty minutes, let it go.

Notice how fewer possessions mean quicker cleaning, leaving you with extra pockets of time.

That time, in turn, fuels the hobbies and relationships we’ve been talking about.

8. Guard your mindset

The stories you tell yourself set the ceiling on what’s possible.

Are you framing aging as inevitable decline or as a chance to double down on wisdom and contribution?

A growth-oriented outlook fuels every other habit on this list.

One exercise I like: write down a limiting belief (“It’s too late to learn piano”) and flip it (“My lifelong love of music makes me the perfect student”).

Read the new sentence each morning for a week and watch how actions begin to follow thoughts.

Try keeping a “done” list alongside your to-do list to spotlight what’s working.

Swap the phrase “I have to” with “I get to”; the tweak nudges the brain toward appreciation.

And remember, the people you spend time with are mirrors—seek out those who see opportunities, not obstacles.

Wrapping it up: your next steps

You don’t need to overhaul life overnight. Instead, pick one section that resonated and:

  • Define a micro-action you’ll complete this week—ten minutes of stretching, a phone call, clearing a shelf.
  • Schedule it—block the calendar or set a reminder.
  • Track progress—a check mark on the fridge works wonders.

Circle back in a month and grade yourself, not for perfection but for direction.
Progress at one percent per day snowballs into a radically different year.

I’ll be cheering you on from the sidelines—see you at seventy.