You’ve heard it before, right? That supposedly insurmountable gap between Baby Boomers and Generation Z. But let me tell you something.

It’s not as wide as you might think.

That’s right. The Boomers who seamlessly interact with Gen Z aren’t unicorns or mythical creatures. They are real people, with identifiable traits that give them an edge. And guess what? These traits aren’t exclusive or elusive.

In fact, psychology identifies seven key traits that these bridge-building Boomers tend to share.

Intrigued?

You should be. Because understanding these traits can significantly enhance your ability to connect across generations.

So without further ado, let’s dive into these seven traits and see how they can transform the way you connect with Gen Z. Short, sweet and to the point – just how we like it here.

1) They are open to change

Change. It’s a word that can cause a shudder for some, and a surge of excitement for others.

The Baby Boomers who connect well with Gen Z? They fall into the latter category.

Now, don’t get me wrong. This doesn’t mean they’re constantly chasing after the newest tech gadget or trying to keep up with Gen Z’s ever-evolving internet slang (though some might).

It’s about something much more fundamental.

It’s about being open to new ideas, new ways of thinking, and new perspectives. It’s about acknowledging that ‘different’ doesn’t necessarily mean ‘wrong.’

It’s about embracing change as an opportunity for learning and growth rather than a threat to the status quo.

And it’s this openness to change that helps them connect with Gen Z, a generation known for its progressive thinking and innovative spirit.

2) They genuinely listen

Listening. It sounds simple, right? But genuine listening is more than just nodding your head while someone else speaks.

It’s about showing genuine interest, asking follow-up questions, and truly valuing the other person’s perspective. And the Boomers who connect well with Gen Z? They’ve mastered this art.

Take my own experience for example.

My neighbor, a retired teacher in her 70s, recently struck up a conversation with my Gen Z nephew about his passion for environmental conservation. Rather than dismissing his views as idealistic or naive because of his age, she listened. I mean, really listened.

She asked him thoughtful questions, encouraged him to share more about his ideas, and even admitted that his perspective had opened her eyes to new aspects of the issue she hadn’t considered before.

And the result?

My nephew felt heard and respected. He was more open to hearing her views as well, which led to a genuinely enriching conversation that bridged the generational divide.

That’s the power of genuine listening. It can turn a casual chat into a meaningful connection. So next time you’re engaging with someone from Gen Z, remember to really listen. It could make all the difference.

3) They don’t shy away from vulnerability

Vulnerability. It’s a word that often gets a bad rap. We associate it with weakness, with exposure, with the risk of getting hurt. But here’s the thing – vulnerability can also be incredibly powerful.

The Boomers who connect well with Gen Z know this all too well. They understand that letting their guard down, showing their human side, can foster deeper connections.

It’s not about airing all your dirty laundry or turning every conversation into a therapy session. It’s about showing that you too have fears, doubts, dreams and disappointments. That you too are human.

I’ve seen this in action – the tough-as-nails Boomer who isn’t afraid to admit when they’re wrong or when they don’t know something. Who shares stories about their own struggles and achievements, not to lecture, but to relate.

This honesty, this willingness to be vulnerable, resonates with Gen Z. They value authenticity and are quick to spot when someone is being genuine or just putting on a show.

So remember, it’s okay to be vulnerable. Yes, it can be scary. But it’s also one of the most effective ways to build trust and foster meaningful connections across generational lines.

4) They respect individuality

It’s easy to fall into the trap of painting an entire generation with a broad brush. But the Boomers who truly connect with Gen Z know better than that.

They know that every individual is unique, shaped by their own experiences, beliefs, and values. They appreciate this diversity, rather than trying to fit everyone into a neatly defined box.

This respect for individuality allows them to connect with Gen Z on a deeper level. Rather than seeing them merely as representatives of their generation, they see them as individuals.

And isn’t that what we all want? To be seen, understood, and respected for who we are as individuals?

It reminds me of a quote I once heard: “Every person you meet is a book, each with their own story to tell.” So let’s take the time to read those books, to understand those stories.

In doing so, we’re not just connecting with a generation – we’re connecting with people.

5) They communicate openly and honestly

Effective communication is a bit like a dance. It requires rhythm, understanding, and most importantly, two willing participants.

The Boomers who connect well with Gen Z know this dance well. They understand that clear, open, and honest communication is key to building strong relationships.

And here’s something you might not know – according to a study by the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, clear and open communication is one of the top indicators of a strong relationship.

But it’s not just about talking – it’s about what you’re saying and how you’re saying it. It’s about being honest, even when it’s hard. It’s about expressing your thoughts and feelings in a way that respects the other person’s perspective.

So whether it’s a casual conversation or a difficult discussion, remember to communicate openly and honestly. It can make all the difference in how well you connect with Gen Z.

6) They practice empathy

Walking a mile in someone else’s shoes might sound cliché, but there’s a reason why this saying has stood the test of time.

It’s all about empathy.

The Boomers who connect well with Gen Z understand this. They make an effort to see the world through their eyes, to understand their experiences and feelings.

When Gen Z talks about the pressures of social media, the fear of climate change, or the stress of student loans, these Boomers don’t dismiss these concerns as trivial or overdramatic.

Instead, they take the time to understand. To empathize. To say, “I see you. I hear you. Your feelings are valid.”

This kind of empathy can bridge even the widest generational gap. It shows Gen Z that they are seen and understood, and that their experiences and feelings matter.

It’s a powerful way to show kindness and understanding – two traits that are universally appreciated, no matter your generation.

7) They stay curious

Curiosity may have gotten the cat into a bit of trouble, but when it comes to bridging generational gaps, it’s a Boomer’s best friend.

The Boomers who connect well with Gen Z never stop asking questions. They’re genuinely interested in learning more about Gen Z’s experiences, interests, and perspectives.

This curiosity goes beyond just being polite or making conversation. It’s a genuine desire to understand and learn from Gen Z.

It’s about recognizing that despite the years that separate them, there’s still so much to discover, so much to learn from each other.

So keep asking questions. Keep learning. Keep growing.

Because when it comes to connecting with Gen Z, staying curious might just be the most important thing you can do.

The takeaway

If you’ve been nodding along to these traits, it’s likely you’re already on the right path to connecting with Gen Z.

And that’s something worth celebrating.

Remember, connecting across generations isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about embracing who you are, while remaining open to growth and understanding.

It’s about seeing the world through someone else’s eyes, and allowing them to see it through yours. It’s about bridging gaps not just in age, but in experience, perspective and understanding.

Recognize your strengths. Acknowledge where there’s room for growth. Stay open to change, but remain true to yourself.

Ask yourself – am I being open-minded? Am I showing genuine interest in their world? Am I respecting their individuality?

It won’t be a walk in the park, but the rewards are worth it. The connections you foster will be deeper and more meaningful. 

Keep striving, keep growing, and most importantly, keep connecting.

Because in a world that often feels divided, the ability to connect across generations is more valuable than ever.