Making your man feel deeply loved goes beyond just saying the right things—it also involves letting go of certain habits.

And no, I’m not talking about leaving the toilet seat up or forgetting to put the toothpaste cap back on.

These are habits that can quietly erode the love and trust in your relationship without you even realizing it. If you truly want your man to feel your love, it’s time to bid farewell to these seven habits.

So, let’s delve in and uncover what they are, shall we?

1) Unnecessary criticism

Creating a strong, loving bond requires a delicate balance of respect and understanding.

In this equation, unnecessary criticism can be like a wrecking ball. Sure, it’s okay to have a constructive chat about something bothering you or affecting the relationship. But nitpicking over trivial stuff? That’s a whole different story.

This habit can sneak up on us, slyly weaving its way into our interactions. You might think you’re just pointing out something that needs fixing, but if it’s a constant barrage, it can feel like a relentless assault.

In the long run, this can leave your man feeling unloved and disrespected. So, if you’re aiming for that deep love vibe, break this habit. 

2) Always being the peacemaker

It might seem counterintuitive, but always taking on the role of peacemaker in your relationship can actually create distance between you and your man.

Sure, avoiding unnecessary arguments and promoting harmony is vital. However, constantly smoothing things over or sweeping issues under the rug can result in unresolved emotions and feelings left unspoken.

In reality, it’s healthy to have disagreements in a relationship. It’s through these conflicts that both of you grow and learn about each other.

If you’re always playing the peacemaker and suppressing your true feelings to avoid conflict, your man might start to feel like he doesn’t really know you, or worse, that his own feelings aren’t being considered.

3) Being overly dependent

One thing that can sometimes sneak into relationships is an unhealthy level of dependence.

Now, don’t get me wrong, it’s natural and healthy to rely on your partner for support and companionship.

However, when it becomes a codependency, where you feel like you can’t function without them, it can put a lot of pressure on your man and make him feel smothered rather than loved.

In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I discuss this issue in depth and provide strategies for fostering a healthier dependency in relationships.

Trust me, letting your man know that while you love him deeply—you also have your own interests and can handle things independently—can make him feel more deeply loved and less burdened.

4) Overlooking self-care

Ladies, listen up! We often get so caught up in looking after others that we forget about ourselves. But, as Eleanor Roosevelt wisely said, “You must do the things you think you cannot do.”

Self-care isn’t just about spa days or treating yourself to fancy dinners—it’s about looking after your mental, emotional, and physical well-being. It’s about doing what brings you joy and fulfillment.

When you neglect your own needs, it can strain your relationship. Your man might feel pressured to fill a void that he simply can’t. Remember, you’re a team, but you’re also individuals.

By prioritizing self-care, you’re showing your man that you value yourself and that you’re not reliant solely on him for happiness. This makes him feel deeply loved because he knows he’s part of your life, not your whole life.

5) Ignoring his need for space

We all need a certain amount of personal space and alone time for our mental well-being, and your man is no exception.

I recall a time when I didn’t fully grasp this concept. Early in my marriage, I thought that spending every waking moment together was a sign of a strong bond. However, I soon realized that my husband sometimes needed his “me” time.

It wasn’t a reflection of his feelings for me, but rather a need to unwind and recharge in his own way. And the moment I understood and respected that need, our relationship became even stronger.

Remember, giving your man the space he needs is a demonstration of love and respect. It shows that you understand his needs and are willing to accommodate them. This can make him feel deeply loved and valued.

6) Neglecting his interests

“Love is not just looking at each other, it’s looking in the same direction.” This quote by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry perfectly encapsulates this point.

One of the things that bring couples closer is shared interests. But it’s also important to show interest in your partner’s hobbies and passions, even if they don’t align with your own.

I remember when my husband first took up golf. Now, I’m not much of a golfer myself, but seeing how much he enjoyed it, I made an effort to learn more about the sport.

Sure, I might not be hitting the greens anytime soon, but being able to talk about his interest with him brought us closer.

Showing genuine interest in your man’s hobbies can make him feel deeply loved and understood. It shows that you value his individuality and are invested in his happiness.

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7) Avoiding difficult conversations

This one’s a tough nut to crack, but boy, is it crucial.

Dodging those tricky conversations might feel like a quick fix. It keeps the peace, avoids arguments, and everything seems peachy on the surface. But beneath that serene facade, problems simmer and simmer.

I’ve learned the hard way that sweeping issues under the rug doesn’t make them vanish. Nope, they just grow and fester over time. It’s like a pesky thorn in your side—if you ignore it, it just digs deeper.

Having those uncomfortable talks with your man—about your feelings, your relationship, your future—can be nerve-wracking. But it shows you’re dead serious about your commitment to him.

And that, my friend, can make your man feel deeply loved.

Feel the love, feel alive

As we come to the end of our exploration of habits to let go of for your man to feel deeply loved, it’s essential to remember that change doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, patience, and understanding.

It’s like peeling an onion—layer by layer. With each habit you shed that doesn’t serve your relationship, you reveal a deeper, more authentic connection.

Some layers might be easier to peel than others, and that’s okay. It’s all part of the journey.

Speaking of insights, there’s this great video by Justin Brown where he dives into the complexities of finding a life partner, emphasizing the importance of shared values and mutual growth.

It beautifully complements what we’ve been discussing in this article and I highly recommend giving it a watch for a deeper exploration of our topic.

Remember, the goal is not perfection but understanding and progress. As you navigate through this journey, know that every effort you make is a step towards a more loving relationship. Let love be your guide.