Imagine tripling your success in life with a simple yet profound shift in your behavior.

It might sound like a tall order, but the key to unlocking unprecedented success could lie in letting go of certain limiting behaviors you might not even realize you’re holding onto.

We often focus on acquiring new skills or strategies to boost our achievements, but sometimes the real breakthrough comes from releasing the habits that are quietly sabotaging our progress.

These behaviors can be sneaky, ingrained in your daily routine without you noticing. Yet, they can put a serious damper on your progress.

In this article, we’ll reveal eight surprising behaviors that are stifling your success and how letting go of them can dramatically enhance your life.

1) Procrastination

Who hasn’t been guilty of putting things off until the last minute? We all have.

But if you’re serious about tripling your success, this is one behavior you need to squash.

Procrastination tends to stem from an avoidance of tasks that we find unpleasant or overwhelming.

However, it only serves to create more stress and pressure in the long run.

Success often comes to those who are proactive, who tackle challenges head-on instead of avoiding them.

The sooner you start addressing tasks, the sooner you’ll see progress.

So next time you’re tempted to put off that important task, remember: Time waits for no one. And neither does success.

So kick procrastination to the curb and watch as your success rate skyrockets.

2) Fear of failure

Let me tell you about my own struggle with the fear of failure.

I used to be terrified of making mistakes. It held me back from taking risks and exploring new opportunities.

I was so focused on not failing, that I limited my own potential.

One day, I read a quote that changed my perspective: “Failure is not the opposite of success, it’s part of success.”

That’s when I realized, each failure was not a setback, but a stepping stone towards success.

So, I began to push myself out of my comfort zone. Sure, I’ve stumbled along the way, but each stumble taught me something valuable.

Now, instead of fearing failure, I see it as an opportunity to learn and grow.

Letting go of this fear can have a profound impact on your success.

After all, you can’t hit a homerun if you’re too scared to swing the bat.

3) Negative self-talk

Did you know the human brain can process up to 70,000 thoughts per day? And a significant portion of these thoughts can be negative.

This constant stream of negative thoughts, also known as negative self-talk, can be incredibly destructive.

It chips away at your confidence and self-belief, hindering your progress towards success.

Imagine trying to climb a mountain while someone constantly tells you that you’re not strong enough, not good enough, not capable enough.

That’s what negative self-talk does.

By learning to challenge and change these negative thought patterns, you can create a more positive mindset.

A mindset that believes in your ability to succeed and overcome obstacles. And that’s a mindset that can triple your success in life.

4) Attachment to outcomes

In Buddhism, one of the core teachings is the idea of non-attachment.

This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t care about results. Rather, it means not letting your happiness and self-worth hinge on specific outcomes.

Attachment to outcomes can create unnecessary stress and anxiety.

You become so focused on achieving a certain result, that you lose sight of the journey.

And if things don’t go as planned, it can lead to feelings of failure and disappointment.

In my book “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego“, I delve deeper into this concept.

I explore how releasing our tight grip on outcomes can free us from self-imposed pressure and open us up to unexpected opportunities.

By practicing non-attachment, you allow yourself to be flexible, adaptable and open-minded.

This is a powerful trait that can significantly boost your success in life. 

5) Being too comfortable

I’ve always been someone who appreciates comfort.

The known, the familiar, the predictable.

There’s something reassuring about it.

But over time, I’ve realized that staying in my comfort zone was holding me back.

You see, success often demands stepping into the unknown. It requires:

• Taking risks
• Trying new things
• Embracing uncertainty

Staying in your comfort zone means settling for “good enough”, rather than reaching for “great”.

It was uncomfortable when I first started pushing myself beyond my boundaries.

But as I did, I began to grow in ways I never thought possible.

I realized that outside of my comfort zone was where real progress happened.

So don’t let your desire for comfort limit your potential.

Embrace the discomfort of growth, and watch your success multiply.

6) Overworking

In a world that glorifies busyness, it might seem counter-intuitive to suggest that working less could lead to more success.

But hear me out.

Working non-stop can lead to burnout, a state of chronic physical and mental exhaustion that can seriously hinder your progress.

Plus, when you’re constantly “on”, you don’t give yourself the opportunity to step back, reflect, and strategize.

Success is not just about hard work. It’s also about smart work. It’s about knowing when to hustle and when to pause. 

So if you’re in the habit of burning the candle at both ends, it might be time for a change.

Even the most powerful engines need downtime for maintenance. So do we.

7) Comparing yourself to others

In this digital age, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparing ourselves with others.

Social media feeds are filled with people flaunting their achievements, leading us to question our own progress.

But here’s the thing: Success is not a race. It’s a personal journey.

What works for one person may not work for another. What one person values, another may not.

When you compare your journey to that of others, you’re not seeing the full picture.

You’re comparing your behind-the-scenes to someone else’s highlight reel.

Focus on your own path, your own growth, and your own goals.

Define success in your own terms, and work towards it at your own pace.

When you stop comparing and start focusing on yourself, you’ll find that success comes more naturally.

8) Fear of change

Change is a constant in life. It’s inevitable and often beyond our control.

Yet, many of us fear it, resist it, or try to avoid it.

But here’s the most important thing you should know: Change is not just inevitable; it’s necessary for growth and success.

Without change, there can be no progress.

When you resist change, you’re essentially resisting growth.

You’re holding onto the past at the expense of your future.

So, don’t let fear of change limit your potential. Embrace it.

See it as an opportunity to learn, grow, and transform.

Because when you open yourself up to change, you open yourself up to success.

Final thought: It’s about unlearning

As you can see, the path to tripling your success isn’t just about adding new strategies but also shedding the limiting behaviors that hold you back.

By identifying and letting go of these eight hidden barriers, you can create space for greater achievements and a more fulfilling life.

Embrace these changes with confidence, and watch as your potential unfolds in ways you never imagined.

In my book “Hidden Secrets of Buddhism: How To Live With Maximum Impact and Minimum Ego“, I delve deeper into this concept of unlearning.

The Buddhist philosophy of letting go provides a fresh perspective on how we can release these chains that bind us.