If you want to attract a high-value woman, say goodbye to these 9 habits
High-value women. They’re heavily sought after and for good reason.
These women are the type who you can build a real future with, someone who will hold you to a higher standard and in return, offer maturity, class, and integrity.
But there’s a catch:
High-value women don’t compromise on their standards; they want someone who matches their level.
So if you want to attract a woman like this into your life, say goodbye to these 10 habits below:
1) Neglecting self-care and hygiene
First impressions are important – there’s no two ways about it.
A high-value woman won’t give you a second glance if she notices your nails are untrimmed, your hair is greasy, or you smell of BO.
In other words, she’s looking for a man who knows how to look after himself.
That’s not to say you need to work out seven days a week or have your teeth bleached, but basic hygiene is a must.
This shows her that you value self-care, something that every high-value woman incorporates into her daily routine.
And let’s be honest, no one wants to kiss someone with bad breath, right?
2) Poor communication skills
Next up we have communication skills – the basis of every interaction and relationship in life.
A high-value woman knows how to express her feelings, and she’s tuned in when someone speaks to her.
So naturally, she expects the same in return.
If you’re the type of guy who bottles up his emotions, checks his phone while someone is speaking, or resorts to unhealthy behaviors like giving the cold shoulder or using crude language, it’s time to level up.
Anything less than open, honest, and respectful is a turnoff.
The good news is these things can all be worked on. High-value men aren’t born with these skills, they practice them over time and so can you.
3) Lack of ambition
Now, with this next point, I’m not saying you need to be the CEO of a Fortune 500 company or match the salary of Steve Jobs.
No. A high-value woman doesn’t really care what you do, as long as you’re doing something or working towards something.
She wants to see passion and drive.
This tells her that you’re the type of man she can build a life with. That you take working hard seriously and have a vision for the future.
Most importantly, you can set goals and see them through.
This shows commitment and dedication; traits that she knows will carry over into her relationship with you.
4) Dishonesty
This next point might seem like an obvious one, but it’s worth mentioning anyway…
If you’re dishonest, even in the “I only tell little white lies” sense of the word, you can say goodbye to attracting a high-value woman.
If a woman sees you can’t be honest, she won’t feel safe to start building a close connection with you.
The bottom line is, she wants a man with integrity.
Someone she can trust, and who in return will trust her.
So if you’re impartial to the odd porky pie here and there, it’s time to let that go and start being a straight-up man.
5) Unreliability
Here’s the scenario:
You’re dating a girl and agree to pick her up from the airport. She’s getting in on an early morning flight, but you knew that when you made the plans.
The morning of her flight comes, and you realize you’re only going to get a few hours of sleep. You send her a message:
“Sorry hon, something has come up and I won’t be able to pick you up in the morning. Catch you later in the day!”
That might work for some women, but send that text to a high-value woman?
You’ll be lucky if you get a text back!
Look, high-value women find flakiness and unreliability extremely off-putting.
They want men who can stick to their word – this shows that you actually care and are willing to make an effort – even if it’s inconvenient or you change your mind.
6) Being overly critical or negative
If there’s one thing to know about high-value women, it’s that they are always looking for ways to do better in life.
They know that to move forward and build a life worth being proud of, they need to have a positive mindset.
A “can-do” attitude.
That’s why you’ll notice most of them don’t dwell on negatives. They don’t waste time criticizing themselves or others. They focus on what they can do and try to improve what they can’t.
So you won’t catch her attention if you rock up with a negative Nelly attitude.
And I’ll be honest, being overly critical isn’t an attractive trait. It might make you feel like you’re superior to others, but most genuine people see straight through that.
It makes you sound moany and whiney and no one likes that, least of all a high-value woman.
7) Excessive jealousy
A little bit of jealousy is normal in a relationship.
But if you want to attract a high-value woman, keep your jealousy in check.
These women aren’t the type to be told who they can or can’t go out with. They won’t tolerate you going through their phones or making comments on their clothing.
And if you try to get in between her and her loved ones?
Well, for her, the choice is easy.
Ultimately, a jealous man is an insecure man.
And a high-value woman doesn’t waste time on men who project their insecurities onto others – she wants a man who knows his worth and trusts her entirely.
8) Lack of empathy
Guys, we’re in 2024.
It’s no longer attractive to be a macho man who takes a stiff upper lip and never connects on an emotional level.
Real masculinity is being able to embrace your own feelings, whilst also offer empathy to others for theirs.
If you can’t do that, it tells her that you’re not emotionally mature.
Now, I’m not saying that high-value women want someone who panders to them every single time they have a bad day.
But they do appreciate an understanding shoulder to lean on from time to time, someone who cares enough to empathize and offer support in times of need.
9) Overdependence on others
Independence. A trait that is at the core of every high-value woman.
These women make their own decisions, rely on themselves as much as is healthy, and rarely allow their lives to be dictated by anyone else.
So if a man is clingy, can’t do anything for himself, or relies on her to the point of becoming a burden, she won’t stick around for long.
If you really want to attract a high-value woman, work on being independent.
Get your shit together, make good decisions, think for yourself, and chances are you’ll meet the woman of your dreams in no time.