If you recognize these 8 signs, you will probably fall in love soon

Tina Fey by Tina Fey | June 27, 2024, 7:47 pm

Falling in love isn’t always a lightning bolt moment. Sometimes, it’s a slow realization that creeps up on you bit by bit.

The thing is, our hearts are sneaky little things and they often start feeling before our minds catch up.

As founder of the Love Connection blog and your trusted relationship expert, I know there are certain signs that can tell you if love is on the horizon.

In this piece, I’ll help you decode the subtle cues your heart is giving you. I promise it’s not as tricky as it sounds!

So, grab a cup of coffee and let’s dig into those telltale signs together. Your future love life might just depend on it!

1) A sudden interest in their life

When we start falling in love, our interest in the other person skyrockets. It’s like suddenly, every detail about them becomes fascinating.

I mean, who knew that someone’s choice of breakfast cereal could be so intriguing? Or that you could listen to them talk about their day at work and not get bored?

If you find yourself genuinely interested in the mundane details of someone’s life, that’s a pretty good sign that your heart is getting involved.

This doesn’t mean you’re turning into a stalker, it just means that you’re starting to care about this person on a deeper level.

And guess what? That’s a beautiful thing. It’s one step closer to falling head over heels.

2) You start seeing them in your future

Before I met my partner, I used to picture my future as a solo adventure. But then, quite unexpectedly, he started popping up in all my imaginary scenarios.

Sound familiar?

If you’re starting to see someone in your future plans, even the mundane ones like grocery shopping or walking your dog, it’s a sign you’re falling in love.

The brilliant Albert Einstein once said, “Imagination is everything. It’s the preview of life’s coming attractions.” So if your imagination is casting someone special in your future scenes, it might just be your heart’s way of telling you what’s coming next.

Don’t panic. Embrace it. After all, love is the greatest adventure of all.

3) Their happiness becomes your happiness

One of the most profound signs of falling in love is when someone else’s happiness starts to matter as much as your own. Suddenly, their joy brings you joy, and their sorrow feels like your own.

This might seem scary, but it’s actually a beautiful aspect of love.

In my book Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I talk about the importance of maintaining individuality in a relationship. But that doesn’t mean you can’t deeply care about your partner’s wellbeing.

So if you’re smiling just because they’re smiling, or if their achievements feel like your own victories, congratulations, my friend. You’re on the road to love. And trust me, it’s a beautiful journey to be on.

4) You’re okay with their flaws

This one might sound counterintuitive, but stick with me.

When we start falling in love, we don’t just see the good in the other person, we also start to see their flaws. But here’s the kicker – we’re okay with them.

Now, this doesn’t mean you ignore major red flags. It just means that those little quirks or habits that might have been annoying in someone else, somehow become endearing in this person.

Maybe they snort when they laugh or they’re always 5 minutes late. But instead of being bothered by it, you find it kind of cute.

Weird, right?

But that’s the thing about love. It makes us see people not as idealized versions, but as beautifully imperfect human beings. And if that’s not magical, I don’t know what is.

5) You feel a sense of calm around them

Falling in love often gets portrayed as a whirlwind of emotions and butterflies in your stomach – and yes, it can be that. But sometimes, it’s the quiet moments that tell you the most.

I remember when I first realized I was in love with my husband. It wasn’t during some grand romantic gesture, but during a quiet evening at home. We were just sitting there, talking about nothing in particular, and I suddenly felt this wave of peace wash over me.

If you feel a sense of calm and comfort when you’re with someone, like you can just be yourself without any pretense, that’s a sign you’re falling in love.

Sometimes, love isn’t about the fireworks. It’s about feeling at home when you’re with someone. And trust me, there’s nothing more beautiful than that.

6) You’re scared

Let’s be real here. Falling in love is downright terrifying.

You’re opening up your heart, your vulnerabilities, and there’s no guarantee of what will happen. You could get hurt. It’s a leap of faith.

But here’s the thing – if you’re feeling scared, it means you care. It means this person matters to you. And that’s a pretty big sign you’re falling in love.

Remember, love is a risk and it can be scary, but it’s also the most rewarding experience you can have. So if your heart’s pounding in your chest at the thought of this person, take a deep breath and step into the unknown. Because love, my friend, is worth it.

7) You become a better person

They say love changes us, and it’s true. When I fell in love with my husband, I noticed that I started to become a better version of myself. I was more patient, more understanding, and more compassionate.

If you’re noticing a positive change in yourself, whether it’s being more patient or being more optimistic, it might be that you’re falling in love.

As the legendary Mahatma Gandhi once said, “The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.” Love, in its purest form, is about serving the one you care for. It’s about putting their needs equal to or even before your own.

So if you find yourself evolving into a kinder and more empathetic person, take note. Love might just be knocking at your door.

8) You miss them when they’re gone

This one hits hard, doesn’t it?

When we’re falling in love, their absence is felt deeply. Suddenly, the house seems emptier when they’re not around. The hours seem longer. Even if they’re just gone for a day, it feels like forever.

If you find yourself missing someone when they’re not around, even if it’s just for a short while, that’s a sign you’re falling in love.

It’s hard to admit this to ourselves sometimes because it feels so vulnerable. But remember, there’s nothing wrong with missing someone. It simply means that their presence in your life matters. And that’s something truly special.

Wrapping up

Falling in love is a journey, not a destination. It’s full of surprises, some delightful and some downright scary. But remember, love is as unique as we are.

These signs are just a guide. Your own experience might be different and that’s okay. The most important thing is to listen to your heart and trust your instincts.

If you want to know more about navigating the intricate world of relationships, check out my book Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship. It’s filled with insights and practical advice that can help you build healthy, loving relationships.

Remember, love might seem complicated, but it’s also the most beautiful thing in the world. So if you see these signs, buckle up. You’re about to embark on an incredible journey.

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