Love is a complex emotion, one that can be difficult to understand, let alone express. But when someone is truly, deeply in love, they often exhibit certain behaviors.

These behaviors are like little clues, revealing the depth of their feelings.

As Tina Fey, founder of the Love Connection blog and a seasoned relationship expert, I’ve seen it all and I have a knack for noticing these signs.

In this article, we’ll dive into ten behaviors that are commonly displayed by those who are genuinely in love.

These behaviors aren’t just actions; they are heartfelt expressions of one of the most powerful emotions we humans experience.

Let’s get started. 

1) Prioritizing their partner’s happiness

One of the strongest indicators of deep love is when someone consistently puts their partner’s happiness at the forefront.

In the realm of relationships, this is a telltale sign of genuine affection and concern. It’s not about losing oneself in the process, but rather about seeing joy in the happiness of the one they love.

When a person is deeply in love, they’ll usually go out of their way to ensure their partner’s comfort, contentment, and overall well-being. They will make sacrifices and compromises, and sometimes even put their own needs on the back burner.

This behavior is more than just a romantic gesture; it’s a profound demonstration of selfless love.

It’s important to balance this with self-care. Love should never demand complete self-sacrifice. And while it’s wonderful to prioritize your partner’s happiness, it should never be at the expense of your own.

2) They communicate openly

Open communication is the backbone of any successful relationship. When someone is deeply in love, they won’t shy away from expressing their feelings, thoughts, and concerns.

Back in my early days of relationship counseling, I noticed that couples who communicated freely and openly were more likely to succeed.

Being deeply in love means being comfortable enough to share your deepest fears, dreams, and feelings with your partner. It’s about trusting them with your vulnerabilities.

As the famous poet Rumi once said, “Speak a new language so that the world will be a new world.” In love, this new language is open and honest communication, creating a world where both partners understand and support each other.

Good communication doesn’t mean agreeing all the time. It means understanding each other even when you don’t agree.

3) They show respect

Respect is another significant sign of deep love. It’s about valuing your partner’s opinions, acknowledging their feelings, and treating them with kindness and consideration.

When I was writing my book, How to Get Your Ex Back: A Step by Step Guide to Winning Them Back (For Good), I noticed a common trend among couples who successfully rekindled their relationships. They all had a deep-rooted respect for each other, which served as a strong foundation for their love.

A person who is deeply in love will respect their partner’s individuality, their choices, and their life outside the relationship. They won’t try to control or change them, but rather encourage them to be the best version of themselves.

Love without respect is shallow and short-lived. So make sure to cultivate this essential behavior in your relationships.

4) They know how to argue

This one might seem a bit counterintuitive. After all, isn’t love supposed to be all about harmony and togetherness? Yes, but the reality is, disagreements are a normal part of any relationship.

What truly matters is how these disagreements are handled. When someone is deeply in love, they don’t resort to hurtful words or actions during an argument. They don’t aim to win the argument, but rather, to understand their partner’s perspective and find a resolution that respects both parties’ feelings.

Healthy arguments can actually strengthen the bond between partners. They allow both individuals to express their feelings and clear up misunderstandings.

It’s not about avoiding arguments, but about learning to argue effectively. A good argument can lead to better understanding, greater respect, and ultimately, deeper love.

5) They make time

In the fast-paced world we live in, time is one of the most precious commodities we have. And when someone is deeply in love, they make their partner a priority by carving out time for them.

I remember when I was just starting my journey as a relationship expert, juggling between my career and my personal life. My partner and I decided to set aside a “date night” every week, no matter how busy we were. This routine significantly improved our bond as it showed our commitment to each other.

When in love, people go out of their way to spend quality time with their partners, whether it’s a movie night at home or a weekend getaway. They understand that shared experiences and time spent together are key to nurturing their relationship.

If your partner is always making time for you despite their busy schedule, it’s a clear sign they’re deeply in love.

6) They are not afraid to be vulnerable

Let’s be honest here, being vulnerable is scary. It means opening up and showing your true self, flaws and all. However, when someone is deeply in love, they are not afraid to let their guard down and be completely raw and honest.

They expose their insecurities, fears, and past mistakes, trusting that their partner will not judge them but accept them for who they are. This level of transparency may be uncomfortable, but it’s a testament to the depth of their love.

It’s in this vulnerability that a deep bond is formed.

As they say, “To love is to be vulnerable.” If your partner is willingly showing you their most authentic self, it’s a sure sign they’re in deep.

7) They are your biggest cheerleader

When someone is deeply in love, they become your biggest cheerleader, always there to celebrate your victories, no matter how big or small.

I remember when I first started the Love Connection blog, my partner was my rock. They believed in me even when I doubted myself and encouraged me every step of the way.

Being deeply in love means believing in your partner’s dreams as much as they do. It means being their support system, their safe haven, and their sounding board.

As the famous writer, Mark Twain once said, “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.”

If your partner is always there on the sidelines, cheering you on and believing in you even when you don’t, it’s a beautiful sign of deep love.

8) They accept your flaws

No one is perfect. We all have our quirks, habits, and flaws. But when someone is deeply in love, they don’t just tolerate these imperfections; they accept and love you for them.

Being deeply in love means seeing beyond the surface to the person underneath, with all their strengths and weaknesses. It’s about understanding that these flaws are a part of who you are and loving you, not despite them, but because of them.

This acceptance isn’t about settling or compromising. It’s about acknowledging that we are all works in progress and choosing to love unconditionally anyways.

True love isn’t blind. It sees, but it doesn’t mind. If your partner has seen your flaws and still chooses to love you every day, that’s a sign of deep, abiding love.

9) They remember little details

When someone is deeply in love, they pay attention to the little things. They remember your favorite food, the story behind that scar on your knee, or how you like your coffee in the morning.

It’s not about grand gestures or extravagant gifts. Often, it’s these small, seemingly insignificant details that show how much someone cares.

This attentiveness shows that they value you and are genuinely interested in your life. It’s a simple yet practical sign of deep love that can easily be overlooked but speaks volumes about one’s feelings.

If your partner remembers the little things about you, know that you hold a special place in their heart.

10) They are there in times of crisis

They say you know who truly cares for you when you’re at your lowest. In my own life, I’ve found this to be profoundly true. It’s easy to be there during the fun, happy times, but when life throws a curveball, that’s when you see who really sticks around.

Being deeply in love means standing by your partner’s side during their darkest hours. It’s about providing comfort, offering a listening ear, or simply being a reassuring presence when they face challenges.

If your partner is there for you during difficult times, offering their unwavering support and care, it’s a sure sign of deep love. After all, love isn’t just about being there when it’s convenient; it’s about being there because you genuinely want to be.

Conclusion

Being deeply in love is more than just a feeling. It’s a series of actions, behaviors, and choices that reflect the depth of one’s affection. So if your partner displays these ten behaviors, you can be sure that their love for you runs deep.

For more insights into love and relationships, check out my book, How to Get Your Ex Back: A Step by Step Guide to Winning Them Back (For Good). It’s packed with practical advice and strategies to help you navigate the complexities of love.

Remember, love isn’t always easy or straightforward. But when it’s deep and genuine, it’s worth every single challenge. Keep loving and stay loved, folks!