When a man truly values you, it shows—not just in his words but in his actions. Love and appreciation aren’t always about grand gestures or dramatic declarations; they’re often revealed in the little things he does every day.

If he feels lucky to have you in his life, there are certain behaviors he’ll naturally display—sometimes without even realizing it. These signs can be a powerful indicator of how much you mean to him.

In this article, we’ll explore eight specific behaviors that show he’s not taking you for granted and feels truly fortunate to have you by his side.

Let’s get started.

1) He cherishes your time together

Relationships are a two-way street, and nothing says “I value you” more than a man who cherishes spending quality time with you.

As a relationship expert, I’ve seen that men who feel lucky to have their partner in their lives prioritize shared experiences. They understand the importance of time well spent and make an effort to create special moments.

It’s not just about luxurious vacations or fancy dinners – although those can certainly be part of it. It’s about those quiet evenings spent at home, the shared laughter over a silly movie, or the simple pleasure of a shared cup of coffee in the morning.

These are the moments that build relationships and foster deep connections. When a man treasures these shared times, it’s often because he feels fortunate to have you in his life.

Just like any other behavior, this should come naturally and without any sense of obligation. Remember, authenticity is key in all aspects of love and relationships.

2) He shows genuine respect

When a man feels lucky to have you, he will undoubtedly treat you with genuine respect. This includes respecting your ideas, your boundaries, and your individuality.

In my own life, I’ve found that the best relationships are those where both parties feel valued and respected. When a man considers himself fortunate to have you, he’ll show it by honoring your thoughts and feelings.

There’s a quote by Albert Einstein that I hold dear, “I speak to everyone in the same way, whether he is the garbage man or the president of the university.” This perfectly encapsulates what respect in relationships should look like.

Respect isn’t about agreeing on everything. It’s about acknowledging differences and embracing them. So if your man values your opinions, even when they differ from his, chances are he feels pretty lucky to have you.

3) He actively supports your dreams and goals

One of the most beautiful signs that a man feels lucky to have you is his active support towards your dreams and aspirations. This support can come in many forms, from being your sounding board to helping you with practical aspects.

In my book, Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship, I emphasize the importance of maintaining individuality in a relationship. And having someone who supports your personal ambitions is a big part of that.

If he’s proud of your achievements, encourages your growth and celebrates your victories with you, then he not only respects you as an individual but also feels lucky to be a part of your life.

4) He is comfortable with silence

This might seem counterintuitive, but a man who feels lucky to have you in his life will often be comfortable with silence.

In our society, we’re conditioned to fill every silence. We’re taught that silence is awkward, and needs to be avoided. But in reality, the ability to share comfortable silence with someone is a sign of a deep and meaningful connection.

When a man feels blessed to have you, he doesn’t always feel the need to fill the silence with words. He can sit next to you in quiet contentment, simply enjoying your presence.

This silent connection speaks volumes about his comfort level with you and his appreciation for your shared companionship. It shows that he doesn’t need constant chatter to enjoy being around you – your mere presence is enough.

5) He communicates openly

Communication is at the heart of every successful relationship. And when a man feels lucky to have you, he’ll make an effort to communicate openly and honestly with you.

From my personal experiences and years of guiding others through their relationships, I’ve found that open communication is one of the key signs of a man who cherishes his partner.

He doesn’t shy away from expressing his feelings or thoughts. He’s open to discussing any issues that arise, and he values your input and perspective. He won’t keep you guessing about what’s on his mind because he trusts in your understanding and respect for him.

When a man communicates freely, it shows he feels safe and secure with you. It’s a clear sign he counts himself lucky to be in a relationship where open dialogue is valued and encouraged.

6) He’s not afraid to be vulnerable

Here’s a raw truth: vulnerability is scary. It’s exposing your deepest self, your fears, and your insecurities. But it’s also one of the strongest signs that a man feels lucky to have you.

When a man allows himself to be vulnerable with you, it shows immense trust. It means he feels safe enough to let down his guard and share his innermost thoughts and feelings.

Men are often taught to hide their vulnerabilities to appear strong. But a man who feels fortunate to have you won’t hide his emotional side. He’ll share his worries, his doubts, and even his failures, because he knows you’ll understand and support him.

This level of emotional openness isn’t easy, and it’s not something that every man can do. But when he does, it’s a clear sign that he values you deeply and feels lucky to have you in his life.

7) He includes you in his future plans

When a man is planning his future and he includes you in it, it’s a sure sign that he feels lucky to have you. It shows that he sees you as a significant part of his life, not just in the present but also in the years to come.

I remember when my husband and I were dating, one of the things that made me realize how special our relationship was, was the way he naturally included me in his future plans. It wasn’t just about next week or next month, but years down the line.

As the famous saying by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry goes, “Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction.” When a man envisions his future with you, it’s not just about being starry-eyed lovers, but also about being partners who walk together on the same path.

8) He doesn’t take you for granted

This is probably the most crucial point, and it’s a raw and honest one. When a man feels lucky to have you, he won’t take you for granted.

In the humdrum of daily life, it’s easy to forget to appreciate the people we love. But a man who feels fortunate to have you will never lose sight of your value. He won’t stop cherishing you just because time has passed or because he’s gotten comfortable in the relationship.

He’ll appreciate your efforts, acknowledge your love, and express his gratitude. He’ll not just love you but also respect the love you give him.

The truth is, taking someone for granted is the quickest way to lose them. And a man who understands how lucky he is to have you will do everything in his power to make sure that never happens.

Conclusion

There you have it, the 8 behaviors that usually indicate a man feels truly blessed to have you in his life. Remember, these behaviors should come naturally and should be consistent.

Also, keep in mind that every man is unique and may express his appreciation in different ways. The key is to recognize the love, respect, and appreciation he has for you in his actions.

For more insights into healthy relationships and overcoming codependency, check out my book Breaking The Attachment: How To Overcome Codependency in Your Relationship. It’s a guide that will help you build stronger and more meaningful connections.