8 things that boomers often do when boarding aircraft that flight attendants wish they would stop doing
Boarding an aircraft can be a tricky business, and there seems to be a generation-specific set of habits that can make it even trickier. In particular, some habits common among baby boomers have flight attendants wishing for a change.
Now, it’s not about pointing fingers or blaming. But, let’s be honest, who wouldn’t appreciate a smoother boarding process?
Stick with me as I clue you in on “8 things that boomers often do when boarding aircraft that flight attendants wish they would stop doing”. It’s all about making that flight experience a more enjoyable one for everyone involved – passengers, boomers, millennials, flight attendants, everyone!
Fair warning though: if you’re a boomer reading this, some home-truths are coming your way. But don’t worry, it’s all in good spirit and the name of improved air travel!
1) Overpacking carry-on bags
Flight attendants have just one plea to boomers: please, oh please, stop overpacking your carry-on bags.
Sure, the idea is to bring all essential items within arm’s reach during your flight. It’s understandable to want to be prepared, boomers, you’ve lived through countless uncertainties – you’ve earned the desire for a little control.
However, the reality on board is often a game of airborne Tetris as flight attendants try to squeeze overstuffed bags into tightly-packed overhead bins. It’s not just a question of space – it also causes delays, increases the risk of injury and adds unnecessary stress on the crew.
And, let’s not forget about the unlucky passenger whose bag ends up relegated to the plane’s underbelly because the overhead bins are full.
So, fellow boomers, on your next flight, remember – less is more. Travel light and see the difference it makes, not just for you, but for everyone. And remember, the flight crew are there to make your flight a pleasant journey!
2) Blocking the aisle while getting situated
Speaking from personal experience, let me tell you, blocking the aisle while trying to get settled into your seat is a common faux pas I see among boomers.
The time? Oh, it’s burnt into my brain: a red-eye flight from Los Angeles to Boston. As I was making my way to my seat, I encountered Bill – a jovial boomer with a passion for Sudoku, a hankering for salted peanuts and a carry-on filled with a variety of items he felt necessary for the 6-hour flight.
As Bill rummaged through his bag for his reading glasses and favorite pen, the aisle turned into a passenger bottleneck, leading to impatient sighs from the queue of folks behind him.
What could have been solved with Bill simply stepping into his seat until the aisle was clear, turned into a major hold-up. An avoidable one at that!
So, my baby boomer friends, here’s my nugget of advice: Step into your seat, take a breath, and then get organized. It’ll keep the boarding process smooth and the aisles clear. Plus, the passengers behind you will silently (or perhaps not so silently) thank you for it!
3) Not watching the safety briefing
I get it, it may not be the most entertaining part of the flight, but the safety briefing is essential. You’d be surprised to know that every year, airlines invest millions to revamp these briefings and try to make them more engaging and informative.
Unfortunately, boomers, often believing they’ve seen it all before, gloss over the safety briefings. Despite having flown thousands of miles over their lifetimes, this can be a potentially dangerous habit since aircraft models and safety protocols sometimes change.
So, next time you fly, even if you’ve heard it a hundred times, pay attention to the friendly flight attendant demonstrating the safety features of the aircraft. It’s for your safety, and you might just learn something new!
4) Standing up too soon
We’ve all been there – the plane finally lands, and you’re eager to exit and stretch your legs. This often leads to boomers standing promptly, some even before the seatbelt sign switches off. Flight attendants repeatedly have to remind passengers of the safety precautions to stay seated until the aircraft comes to a complete standstill.
Not only is it a hazard to you and those around you, but it also disrupts the deboarding process as flight attendants work to prep the aisle for exit.
So, next time the wheels hit the tarmac, resist the urge to stand immediately. Instead, take a moment, gather your belongings, and wait for that sweet ping of the seatbelt sign turning off. Patience, in this case, truly is a virtue.
5) Skipping the pleasantries
While it may seem insignificant compared to security procedures and airline protocol, a simple smile or a friendly greeting carries more weight than most realize.
Flight attendants are the beating heart of the flight, putting in immense effort to ensure all passengers have a comfortable journey. Despite long hours, being away from family, and dealing with an assortment of passenger personalities, they greet everyone with a warm smile and unwavering patience.
Yet, many boomers, sometimes wrapped up in the stress of travel, skip the pleasantries. While it might seem a minor act, taking a moment to return a greeting, ask how their day is going, or simply smile can make a huge difference to an attendant’s day.
In the grand scheme of things, a flight is just a small moment of our lives. So why not fill it with kindness? Remember, a little empathy goes a long way. And who knows, it might even get you an extra pack of those tiny airline cookies!
6) Rushing the drinks cart
The drinks cart rolling down the aisle carries the promise of refreshment, a cup of coffee to wake you up or cool beverage to relax you. However, it’s important to remember that it’s a form of service, not a sprint.
Often, boomers tend to be overly eager or impatient when it comes to their in-flight refreshments. I remember a flight where I spilled hot coffee on myself because I was too hasty and accidentally knocked over the cup the flight attendant handed me.
It was a bit embarrassing and it taught me a valuable lesson: patience. Flight attendants are trying their best to cater to everyone’s needs in a confined space. Let’s give them the time and room they require to do their job efficiently and without accidental spills.
So, next time you’re on a flight, remember: breathe, smile, and accept your drink slowly. It’s a service, not a race. Plus, avoiding potential spills is a bonus!
7) Ignoring the boarding zones
Boarding a flight isn’t a free-for-all. Airlines create zones for a reason – to simplify and streamline the boarding process. Yet, some boomers are prone to ignoring these zones, either out of impatience or misunderstanding.
Sticking to your assigned zone isn’t something to overlook. It keeps the boarding process orderly, reduces aisle congestion, and keeps stress levels in check for both passengers and flight crew.
As sigh-inducing as waiting for your zone can be, remember that patience in the boarding area translates to a smoother, less chaotic flight experience for everyone. Respect the zones – they are there for everyone’s benefit!
8) Crowding the baggage carousel
The flight’s over and you’ve successfully navigated the airport to reach the final hurdle – the baggage carousel. It’s common to see a crowd of boomers standing directly next to the conveyor belt, keen to snatch up their luggage at the earliest opportunity.
However, crowding the carousel can result in chaos. It can block others’ view of their luggage and inhibit access to their bags.
Flight attendants join layover passengers in requesting a little spatial awareness. Stand a step or two back from the carousel, allowing everyone to see and reach their bags comfortably. It makes a world of difference and ends the journey on a positive note.
Traveling together
On the surface, this article may seem to spotlight some problematic travel behaviors prevalent in baby boomers during air travel, based on flight attendants’ point of view. But when we delve deeper, it’s a conversation about how we, as diverse groups of travelers from various generations, can better coexist in a shared, cramped space 35,000 feet above ground.
Listening to cabin crew guidelines, being mindful of the space and comfort of others around us, and sprinkling in a touch more patience and empathy goes beyond making a flight attendant’s day – better travel habits enhance our collective experience.
After all, we’re all in it together, right from the seat belt signs switching on, through the turbulence and peanuts, to the captain’s announcement of reaching our destination. Whether you’re a boomer, millennial, or somewhere in between, let’s strive for harmony, spread wings of consideration, and navigate the skies with mutual respect and understanding.
After all, isn’t travel about shared journeys and kindling connections, no matter how transitory they may be?

