10 morning habits that will make you look and feel decades younger, says a psychologist

Aging is inevitable—but looking and feeling old? That’s optional.
The way you start your morning sets the tone for your entire day, and small habits can make a big difference in how youthful and energized you feel.
The best part? You don’t need expensive treatments or miracle cures—just a few smart tweaks to your routine.
According to psychologists, certain morning habits can help you feel sharper, look fresher, and even slow down the signs of aging.
And the right habits don’t just improve your appearance—they boost your mindset, too.
Here are ten simple morning habits that can make you look and feel decades younger.
1) Get sunlight first thing in the morning
Most people wake up and reach for their phone—but your body craves something else first: sunlight.
Natural light in the morning helps regulate your circadian rhythm, which controls everything from your energy levels to how well you sleep at night.
And better sleep means better skin, sharper thinking, and more youthful energy.
Psychologist Andrew Huberman, a neuroscientist at Stanford University, puts it simply: “Viewing sunlight in the morning increases early-day cortisol release, which is essential for wakefulness and focus.”
In other words, getting outside first thing can help you feel more alert and refreshed all day long.
So before you grab your coffee or check your emails, step outside for a few minutes. Your body—and your future self—will thank you.
2) Drink a glass of water before anything else
For years, my mornings started with coffee. I’d roll out of bed, make a beeline for the kitchen, and sip my way to wakefulness. But I always felt sluggish, no matter how much caffeine I drank.
Then I made one small change: I started drinking a glass of water before my coffee. And almost immediately, I noticed a difference.
My skin looked less tired, my digestion improved, and I felt more awake—before the caffeine even kicked in.
There’s a reason for this. After hours of sleep, your body is naturally dehydrated.
Drinking water first thing jumpstarts your metabolism, flushes out toxins, and rehydrates your cells—giving you that fresh, youthful glow from the inside out.
Psychologist William James once said, “The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another.”
And when it comes to hydration, the same philosophy applies: choosing water first sets the tone for a healthier, more energized day.
So before you reach for coffee, try reaching for water instead. It’s one of the easiest ways to start your day feeling younger and more refreshed.
3) Stop looking at your phone first thing
I used to wake up and immediately grab my phone—scrolling through emails, checking social media, diving headfirst into the chaos of the world before I even got out of bed. And honestly? It made me feel awful.
My mind felt cluttered before the day had even started. My stress levels were high, my focus was scattered, and I felt like I was constantly playing catch-up.
It wasn’t until I made a rule to not check my phone for the first 30 minutes of my morning that I realized how much damage that habit was doing.
Psychologist Carl Jung once said, “Your vision will become clear only when you look into your own heart. Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakes.”
And that’s exactly what happens when you stop letting outside distractions dictate your morning. Instead of reacting to emails and notifications, you give yourself space to wake up fully—on your own terms.
Try it. Leave your phone across the room, resist the urge to check it first thing, and see how much calmer and more present you feel.
It’s a small change that makes a huge difference in how youthful and energized you feel throughout the day.
4) Move your body, even just a little
I used to think that if I didn’t have time for a full workout in the morning, it wasn’t worth doing anything at all.
But I was wrong. Even just five minutes of stretching, walking, or light movement makes a noticeable difference in how I feel for the rest of the day.
Movement wakes up your muscles, gets your blood flowing, and signals to your brain that it’s time to be alert.
It also boosts endorphins—the body’s natural feel-good chemicals—which can instantly make you feel more energized and youthful.
As William James, the father of modern psychology, once said, “We don’t laugh because we’re happy—we’re happy because we laugh.”
The same applies to movement: you don’t wait until you have energy to move; you move first, and the energy follows.
So whether it’s a few stretches in bed, a quick walk around the block, or a couple of jumping jacks in your living room—just do something. Your body will thank you for it.
5) Take a cold shower (or at least splash your face)
It sounds miserable, right? Who wants to step into freezing water first thing in the morning? I used to think the same—until I tried it.
The shock of cold water instantly wakes you up, boosts circulation, and reduces inflammation, making your skin look brighter and more refreshed. But the real magic is what it does for your mind.
Cold exposure can lower stress levels, increase resilience, and even improve mood by triggering the release of dopamine—the brain’s feel-good chemical.
Psychologist Viktor Frankl once wrote, “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.”
And that’s exactly what cold water forces you to do. You don’t wait to feel ready—you embrace discomfort, and in doing so, you become stronger.
If a full cold shower feels like too much, start small. Splash cold water on your face or end your shower with 10 seconds of cold. It’s uncomfortable—but so is aging faster than you need to.
6) Practice gratitude before starting your day
It’s easy to wake up and immediately start thinking about everything you have to do. The emails. The deadlines. The errands. But shifting your focus—just for a moment—can change everything.
Studies show that practicing gratitude can lower stress, improve mood, and even boost physical health.
And when you start your morning by focusing on what you’re grateful for, you’re setting the tone for a more positive, youthful mindset throughout the day.
So before you reach for your phone or dive into work, take a moment. Think of three things you’re grateful for. Write them down if you want. Say them out loud. It doesn’t have to be deep—just something real.
That simple habit can make you look and feel lighter, brighter, and years younger.
7) Make your bed (yes, really)
For years, I never bothered making my bed. I figured it didn’t matter—I was just going to mess it up again at night.
But when I finally made it a habit, I realized it wasn’t about the bed. It was about starting my day with a small win.
Making your bed might seem insignificant, but it sets the tone for productivity, discipline, and a sense of control.
It’s a simple way to tell yourself, I’ve already accomplished something today. And that mindset carries into everything else you do.
As psychologist Jordan Peterson says, “If you can’t even clean up your own room, who the hell are you to give advice to the world?”
In other words, small actions matter. They build confidence, structure, and a sense of order that keeps your mind clear and focused.
Try it. Take 30 seconds to straighten your sheets and fluff your pillows. It won’t just make your room look better—it’ll make you feel better, too.
8) Stop hitting snooze
I used to hit snooze at least three times every morning. It felt like I was giving myself a little extra rest, a few more stolen moments of sleep. But in reality? It was making me feel more exhausted, not less.
Every time you hit snooze, your body starts to drift back into sleep—only to be yanked out of it again minutes later.
This confuses your brain, disrupts your natural wake-up process, and leaves you feeling groggy for hours. That’s not extra rest—that’s self-sabotage.
Instead of waking up refreshed, you’re forcing your brain to restart the waking process over and over again.
So do yourself a favor—set your alarm for the time you actually need to wake up, and when it goes off, get up.
No bargaining, no just five more minutes. It’s hard at first, but trust me—it makes a world of difference in how awake and energized you feel all day long.
9) Eat a high-protein breakfast (or skip it entirely)
For years, I believed that breakfast was the most important meal of the day.
So I’d start my morning with something quick—usually toast or cereal—thinking I was doing the right thing. But I always felt sluggish and hungry again in an hour.
Then I learned something surprising: a high-carb, sugary breakfast can actually make you feel more tired.
If you’re going to eat in the morning, a high-protein meal (like eggs, Greek yogurt, or a protein shake) will keep you full longer and give you steady energy.
And if you’re not hungry? Skipping breakfast altogether can actually be beneficial, too.
Your body doesn’t need food the moment you wake up—what it needs is the right kind of fuel when you do eat.
If you’re eating first thing, make it protein-heavy. And if you’re not hungry? Don’t force it. Your body knows what it needs—listen to it.
10) Set an intention for the day
For the longest time, my mornings felt chaotic. I’d wake up, rush through my routine, and dive straight into work without a second thought.
By midday, I’d feel scattered, overwhelmed, and like I was just reacting to whatever came my way.
Then I started setting a simple intention each morning—just a quick moment to decide how I wanted to approach the day. Some days it was, “Stay present.” Other days, “Focus on what actually matters.”
It didn’t take long, but it made a huge difference in how I felt and carried myself throughout the day.
Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, known for his work on flow states, once said,“Control of consciousness determines the quality of life.”
In other words, when you start your day with purpose—rather than letting it pull you in every direction—you feel more grounded, focused, and in control.
So before you rush into your to-do list, take a breath. Ask yourself: What do I want from today? A little clarity in the morning can make you feel sharper, calmer, and yes—even younger.