Retirement won’t bring happiness by itself, but doing these 12 things will

Frank Thornhill by Frank Thornhill | October 16, 2025, 10:09 am

It’s your last day of work. Ever.

Finally, it’s time for retirement — no more alarm clocks or deadlines looming over your head. You’ve got dreams. Maybe a hammock in the backyard with your favorite book in your hand, or a long-awaited trip to the tropics.

But, there’s this little thought – “Now what?”

Suddenly, you’re faced with bucket loads of free time and that nagging doubt surfaces.

Retirement sounds great, right? But hey, it’s not a one-way ticket to the forever happy land. It’s a big life change. Mind you, big changes are often followed by big challenges.

Worried? Don’t be!

See, retirement isn’t a downhill ride. It’s a brand new chapter. An adventure! And like every cool adventure, you need a navigation map. In this case, to navigate your way to happiness.

Good news, I’ve got something for you.

Here come twelve simple steps you can take to live a happy retirement life.

1) Embrace a daily routine

Retirement means saying goodbye to the 9 to 5 grind. But does it mean bidding farewell to routine altogether? Not quite.

Even though you’ve left behind your work schedule, having a daily routine can still bring a lot of benefits. Routines can offer a sense of structure and purpose to your days, helping you to avoid feelings of aimlessness or boredom.

Your new routine doesn’t need to be strict. It’s not about filling every minute with tasks and activities. Instead, create a flexible routine that fits your retirement lifestyle. Plan out time for your hobbies, exercise, social activities, or learning something new.

Whenever you wake up each day, you’ll have a clear idea of what you’re doing. 

2) Stay active and healthy

Tempting as it may be to embrace a sedentary lifestyle once you retire, remember, staying physically active is crucial to your health and happiness.

You have the time now, why not use it to do some exercises that you like or discover the joy of new ones?

Perhaps it’s biking, yoga, tennis, or going for long, relaxing walks. Not only does exercise keep your body in shape, it’s a surefire way to boost your mood and keep you energized.

And healthy isn’t just about exercise. It’s also about what you eat. So, take the time to prepare nutritious meals and maybe even learn to cook something new.

3) Keep learning

You may have put your work life behind you, but don’t retire your curiosity.

In my own experience, continually learning and trying new things has been vital. I’ve always had a soft spot for the fascinating world of astronomy, but between work and family life, I never really found the time to delve into it.

When I retired, I decided to change that. I bought a telescope, subscribed to a few space magazines, and got hooked on stargazing. The joy of learning about something I was genuinely interested in – that did wonders for my happiness and made my retirement feel exciting and fulfilling.

So pick something you’ve always wanted to learn about or a skill you’ve wanted to master. Whether it’s painting, foreign languages, coding, or growing your own vegetables, embrace the joy of learning something new in your retirement years. 

4) Get involved in your community

Retirement presents a golden opportunity to connect with your local community.

Here’s an interesting fact: Research by the Corporation for National and Community Service in the United States found that volunteering leads to better health and makes you happier!

Volunteers have lower mortality rates, lower rates of depression, and a greater sense of satisfaction.

So, look for charities, local clubs, or organizations that might need volunteers. Helping out at a community center, joining a local gardening club, or mentoring at a school can help you feel more connected and give a sense of purpose.

5) Maintain and create connections

True wealth in life often comes in the form of relationships. And that doesn’t change when you retire.

Cherish the relationships you have – with your partner, children, grandchildren, friends, or pets. Spend quality time with them. Deeper connections can bring immense joy and comfort in ways that nothing else can match.

But don’t stop at the existing relationships you have. Retirement can also be a perfect time to forge new friendships. Who says making friends has an age limit?

In the end, it’s the people we share our lives with that fill our hearts with happiness. Don’t underestimate the power of good company to lighten your day and enrich your retirement years.

6) Find your passion

Retirement is the perfect time to dive into things you’re passionate about, the ones that maybe you didn’t have time for when you were working.

Let me share an example from my life. I’ve always loved classic cars but, while working, I could barely afford the time to attend a car show, let alone work on restoring one myself. But once I retired, I jumped headfirst into this longtime love of mine.

I ended up buying an old, somewhat run-down 1961 Triumph TR3 and spent months restoring it. The experience was incredible, bringing me a sense of peace and accomplishment that was truly invigorating.

So, whether it’s something you always loved, like my cars, or something new you’d like to dive into, go for it! These passions will bring vibrant color to the canvas of your retirement life.

7) Don’t ignore your finances

Let’s be real. Money matters. Learning to manage your finances is crucial for a stress-free retirement.

Despite all those dreams of relaxation and enjoying a carefree life, constantly worrying about bills or unexpected expenses can create unnecessary anxiety and hinder your journey to happiness.

It doesn’t mean you need to be rolling in money to enjoy retirement, but having a handle on where you stand financially can offer peace of mind.

Remember, it’s your retirement. You’ve earned every cent. Managing it smartly means you can enjoy the fruits of your hard work without the stress. Rest easy knowing you’re prepared, and happily enjoy this chapter of your life.

8) Adopt a positive mindset

Did you know that your brain can change and adapt at any age? This ability is known as neuroplasticity. And it’s great news for anyone chasing happiness in retirement.

Adopting a positive mindset is more than just seeing the silver linings or suppressing negative thoughts. It’s about welcoming positivity into every aspect of your life – your habits, your relationships, even your daily routines.

Scientific studies show that practicing gratitude, for example, can have incredible benefits, ranging from better sleep to increased happiness and reduction of depressive symptoms.

It’s time to cultivate that positive, “glass-half-full” outlook. Be mindful and grateful for small victories and simple pleasures. 

9) Travel and explore

One of the wonderful advantages of retirement is the freedom to finally take that trip you always put off. And I’m a prime example of this.

When I retired, the very first thing I did was to book a ticket to Italy – a dream destination I’d put on the back burner for years.

This trip wasn’t just about seeing famous monuments or eating delicious pastas – it was about the thrill of stepping out of my comfort zone, experiencing new cultures, and meeting new people.

And travel doesn’t always mean hopping on a plane to far-off places. Road trips closer to home, exploring new hiking trails, or visiting a nearby town you’ve never been to can all offer the sweet headrush of exploration.

10) Accept change

This might sting a bit, but it’s a fact: Retirement comes with significant changes. The comfortable routine of working days is behind you, and you’re stepping into uncharted territory.

Accepting this change can be difficult, and sometimes downright scary. It’s okay to feel like this.

Change always brings along a bit of discomfort. But remember, with a little patience and perseverance, you can adapt to the new rhythm of retirement life.

Embrace this change, ride the wave, and be open to all the possibilities your new lifestyle has to offer. 

11) Make time for you

Honestly, between the hustle and bustle of work and family life, did you always manage to carve out time solely for yourself? Probably not as much as you would’ve liked. But hey, retirement’s got you covered now!

Retirement is your golden opportunity to focus on you. Enjoy a leisurely cup of coffee in the morning without rushing, indulge in your favorite book, or spend an afternoon just watching movies – no guilt, no stress.

Make sure you dedicate quality time to yourself, doing things you truly enjoy. After all, you’ve earned it!

12) Stay patient

And last, but definitely not least, be patient with yourself. Retirement is a journey, not a destination.

Despite the excitement, you might still have days when you feel off – maybe you miss your colleagues, or maybe you feel a little lost without the workflow you were so used to.

It’s perfectly normal. The key is to be patient with yourself during this transition period.

Remember, retirement is not the end of the road. It’s just the beginning of a new, exciting adventure. Patience, my friend, will be your best companion on this journey.