I’m lower middle class, and I’m tired of being told travel is “for rich people”—here’s how I make it work
When people say travel is only for rich people, what they usually mean is “I never learned how to make it affordable” or “I’m afraid to look broke.”
I’m lower middle class by any spreadsheet you’d pull up.
I’ve had months where an unexpected vet bill derailed my plans, and I’ve also been to places my childhood self would have sworn were impossible.
I’m not selling a fantasy here as I’m talking trade-offs, systems, and a mindset that treats travel like a priority you plan for, not a luxury you hope appears.
If that sounds boring, good. Boring habits are what pay for the fun stuff.
Let me show you how I make it work:
I plan like a minimalist, not a tourist
Tourists try to do everything, while minimalists try to do the right things.
I pick one core goal for a trip: Rest by the beach, see one friend I miss, or hike a specific trail.
When I anchor the trip to one purpose, I save money everywhere else.
Fewer transfers, fewer “might as well” add-ons, and less FOMO.
I also cut itinerary bloat.
If I’m in Spain for seven days, I choose Madrid or Barcelona, not both.
Slow travel is cheaper travel.
Fewer cities means fewer transport costs and fewer check-in fees, and I actually enjoy the place I came to see.
Flexibility is my real superpower
Most people pick dates, then choke on the prices.
I flip it; I start with flexible dates and flexible places.
I look at a calendar and circle windows where I can be gone, then I search flights across those windows and let prices guide the destination.
If Italy is 3x the cost of Portugal that week, then congratulations to Portugal, you win!
I also play with departure airports.
A cheap bus ride to a bigger airport can slash the ticket.
Leaving on a Tuesday instead of a Friday saves more than skipping lattes for a month.
Flexibility beats frugality nine times out of ten.
I treat flights like a math problem
I do not chase “free” flights unless the math works.
Credit card points can be great if, and only if, I can pay my balance in full.
Interest obliterates rewards.
If you’re still building financial stability, stick to cash deals and flight alerts from airlines and apps.
I buy the cheapest reasonable fare and add exactly what I need, I rarely check a bag, I wear my heaviest shoes, and I use a small backpack that forces me to pack light.
You cannot overspend on baggage you did not bring.
Red-eyes are my friend; one overnight flight equals one less night of accommodation.
It is not glamorous, it is effective.
I use the calendar to stack free time
I do not have infinite PTO. I stack holidays with weekends.
If a public holiday lands on a Friday, I take Monday off and stretch four days into five; if it lands on a Tuesday, I take Monday.
The outcome is the same as more days away with minimal PTO burn.
I also frontload work the week before I leave and communicate clearly.
Bosses say yes more when you hand them a plan that makes their life easier.
I’ve mentioned this before but half of “they won’t let me take time off” is a planning problem, not a policy problem.
I build a simple travel fund that runs on autopilot
Every payday, a small amount moves to a dedicated “Trips” account.
Not a random savings jar, but a named, visible account with a purpose.
I never see that money in checking, so I don’t spend it by accident.
When I get a windfall, even something tiny, a slice goes into that account.
Sold a piece of gear I no longer use, received a tax refund, freelance check arrived, then skim and stash.
Tiny streams fill the bucket faster than you think.
I also do a quarterly expense audit.
Subscriptions I forgot, insurance I can re-quote, and meal kits I never finish.
I redirect those savings to the Trips account.
Budgeting is just choosing where your future money will go before your present self eats it.
I use tech like someone who grew up with it

I set price alerts, I download offline maps, I store boarding passes in my wallet app, I use transit apps before I land to learn routes, and I keep my itinerary in a shared note so family can find me.
Simple tech habits erase “tourist tax” mistakes like wrong stops, dead SIMs, or costly last-minute taxis.
I also travel with a tiny power bank and an unlocked phone.
Cheap local data means I never have to play the “find free Wi-Fi” game at a coffee shop I did not want.
Little tech choices compound into less stress and fewer dollars burned.
I eat like a local with a fridge
I refuse to spend half my budget at restaurants.
I shop at grocery stores, bakeries, and markets, I eat my big meal at lunch when prices are lower, and I sit in parks.
If I crave a nice dinner, I plan for one or two and make them count.
A quick rule that saves money and stomach pain.
Eat where the line is locals, not tourists.
If the menu has seven languages, I keep walking; if the special changes daily and is written on a board, I sit.
I do free things first
Every city has a list of free or almost free experiences.
Parks, beaches, public viewpoints, churches with stunning architecture, free museum days, open-air markets, and neighborhoods that are basically outdoor museums.
I fill my first two days with those, then I decide if I still want the pricier stuff.
Most trips, I do not.
Turns out sunsets do not have a cover charge!
I accept the trade-offs without whining
Here is the part people skip: I say no to other things.
I drive a used car, I share a place or live in a smaller one than I could stretch for, and I cook at home more than I eat out.
My wardrobe is simple, too.
When friends want a fancy bar every weekend, I rotate in house nights with cheap drinks and a playlist.
Trade-offs are proof I know what I value.
If travel is my priority, I fund it like one.
I use small income boosts to lengthen trips
I like tiny side hustles that don’t drain my brain.
A couple freelance pieces a month; selling old tech, short consulting blocks, and those spurts fund extra days on the road.
I am trying to buy time through this.
Time is the most expensive part of travel that no one itemizes.
Truthfully, if I can pay for two more days with one weekend of focused work, I take that deal every time.
I ignore the rich-versus-poor travel debate
The loudest voices online either flex five-star hotels or shame anyone who enjoys comfort.
This is because I want to get on the road without wrecking my budget or my joy.
You will meet people who think vacations mean you are irresponsible; you will meet people who think economy class is a moral failing.
Both are wrong because the only standard that matters is whether your choices align with your values and goals.
What actually makes this work
It is not hacks, but permission.
Permission to choose slower and cheaper over faster and flashier, to plan like a grown adult and still be spontaneous within that plan, to set priorities that do not match your friends or your feed, and to say “I cannot afford that” while also saying “I can afford this, and I am going.”
If you want travel in your life, design for it and build the fund.
Go—not when you are rich or when everything lines up—when you have a plan that fits your reality.
Travel is for people who are willing to trade what they do not care about for what they do.
That can be you, because it is already me.
