We all deserve respect in a relationship, right?

You bet. But sometimes, it just doesn’t feel like it.

It can sometimes feel like you’re taken for granted, like your feelings don’t matter, and you’re simply not respected for who you are.

Trust me, many of us felt the same. It’s as if our worth is not recognized or appreciated in a relationship.

But what if i tell you that it’s something you can have total control over, that you’re the one who can turn the situation around?

It’s always start from awareness. Now, let’s delve into 8 behaviors that a self-respecting woman will never tolerate from a man.

Some of these might sting a bit. But as you read on, remember I’m here to simply remind you of certain behaviors that shouldn’t be overlooked.

1) Disrespectful comments

I remember this one time, I had just gotten a promotion at work. I was excited and couldn’t wait to share the news with my then-boyfriend. But his response?

“Great, now you can pay more of the bills.”

That’s it. No congratulations. No excitement. Nothing. He thought he was being funny, but to me, it felt like a punch in the gut. It was then that I realized…this is a form of disrespect.

A man who respects you will celebrate your achievements, not belittle them or use them as an excuse for his own shortcomings. Someone deserve your respect won’t say such hurtful words and mask it as a joke.

And, of course, a woman with self-respect should never tolerate such disrespectful comments.

2) Ignoring your feelings

Another example from my own life – I once opened up to a partner about something that was bothering me. It was a big deal for me, something that had been weighing on my heart for weeks.

His response? “Oh, you’re just overthinking.”

And just like that, my feelings were dismissed and belittled. It was as though my feelings were not important or valid.

This is another behavior a self-respecting woman won’t put up with. Your feelings are valid, and they deserve to be acknowledged and respected.

If a man can’t do that, he’s not worth your time!

3) Controlling behavior

You might be surprised to know that one in three women who have been in a romantic relationship report experiencing some form of controlling behavior from their partners.

This could be anything from dictating what she wears, to who she talks to, or even when she can leave the house.

Control is not love. It is a form of emotional abuse and a clear sign of disrespect.

A woman with self-respect knows her worth and will not tolerate being controlled or manipulated. She values her independence and right to make her own decisions.

4) Not being a priority

We’ve all been there. Waiting for that call or text that never comes. Cancelling plans at the last minute because something ‘more important’ came up.

It feels as though you’re always second best, always an option, never a priority.

No one should ever be made to feel this way in a relationship. Love is about caring for each other, being there for each other, and prioritizing each other’s needs.

Remember, a woman who values herself never settle for less!

5) Breach of trust

I’ll never forget that day. I had accidentally stumbled upon some messages on my ex’s phone – messages that were clearly not meant for me. My heart sank. The trust was broken.

Trust is the bedrock of any healthy relationship.

Once that’s gone, it’s almost impossible to rebuild. A man who respects you will value your trust and won’t do anything to jeopardize it. A woman with self-respect won’t tolerate a breach of trust because she knows she deserves honesty and loyalty.

6) Constant criticism

Imagine constantly hearing negative comments about your appearance, your work or even your personality from your partner. It’s draining, isn’t it?

Criticism, when constructive and well-intended, can be helpful. But constant negative criticism is damaging and disrespectful.

A woman who knows her worth understands that she deserves a man who will uplift her, not bring her down. She won’t tolerate being constantly criticized because she knows she is worthy of love and respect.

7) Disrespect towards loved ones

I remember bringing a boyfriend home to meet my family for the first time. He was rude to my sister, dismissive of my parents, and generally disrespectful to everyone he met that day.

It was a clear sign that he didn’t respect me enough to respect the people I care about.

A man who respects you will also respect those you love. If he can’t treat your loved ones well, it’s a red flag!

8) Physical or emotional abuse

This is non-negotiable. No one, under any circumstance, should tolerate physical or emotional abuse in a relationship.

A woman with self-respect will not tolerate any sort of abuse. She knows that love should never hurt and that she deserves to be treated with kindness and care.

Conclusion

There you have it – 8 behaviors a woman with self-respect won’t tolerate from a man. Remember, respect is the cornerstone of any relationship. If you ever feel disrespected in your relationship, know that you’re worth more and deserve better!