9 habits of people who remain calm under pressure (even in challenging situations)

Tina Fey by Tina Fey | March 27, 2024, 12:50 am

Staying calm under pressure isn’t always easy. We’ve all had those moments when stress and tension rise, and keeping your cool seems impossible.

Yet, there are some people who manage to remain composed even in the most difficult situations. You’ve probably wondered how they do it.

Well, it’s not magic, it’s about adopting certain habits. Habits that help them navigate through pressure with grace and poise.

In this article, I’ll share with you 9 habits of people who stay calm under pressure – even when faced with tough challenges.

Let’s dive in and discover these secrets to maintain a zen-like tranquility in the storm of pressure.

1) Embrace mindfulness

Mindfulness is a powerful tool that people often overlook. It’s the practice of being present in the moment, focusing on what’s happening right now, rather than stressing about the past or future.

You’ve probably heard about this from yoga or meditation practitioners. But this isn’t just for the yogis, it’s a habit anyone can adopt, and it works wonders for staying calm under pressure.

Why? Because when we are mindful, we keep our thoughts from spiraling into what-ifs and worst-case scenarios. We deal with problems as they come, not as we imagine them to be.

So next time you find yourself in a high-pressure situation, take a deep breath and focus on the here and now. You might be surprised how much calmer you feel.

Mindfulness is a skill. It takes practice. But the more you do it, the better you’ll get at staying calm when things get tough.

2) Regular exercise

Now, this might sound a bit cliché, but hear me out. Regular exercise has been a game-changer for me.

I used to be the type who would get easily flustered under pressure. Deadlines, challenging tasks, difficult conversations – you name it, and I was sweating bullets.

But then I started running. Initially, it was just to get in shape, but soon I noticed a significant difference in my stress levels.

Whenever I felt overwhelmed, I would go for a run. With every mile, I could feel the tension melting away. It was as if each stride was pounding the stress out of my system.

Exercise is not just about physical health. It helps clear your mind and release pent-up stress. It’s like hitting a reset button on your mental state.

Find an exercise routine that you enjoy – be it running like me or yoga, swimming, cycling, or even dancing. Incorporate it into your daily life and notice the difference it makes in maintaining calm under pressure.

3) Adequate sleep

Sleep might seem like an unlikely ally when it comes to staying calm under pressure, but it’s a crucial one. A lack of sleep can make us irritable, short-tempered, and less capable of handling stress.

On the contrary, when we are well-rested, our brains function better. We’re able to think more clearly, make better decisions, and respond to challenges more effectively.

Adults need between seven to nine hours of sleep per night for optimal health. Yet, a large percentage of us are falling short of this goal due to various reasons – work stress, digital distractions or poor sleep habits.

So if you’re wanting to stay calm in the face of pressure, prioritizing a good night’s sleep is essential. It equips your brain with the rest it needs to handle whatever challenges the day throws your way.

4) Practicing gratitude

When life gets tough, it’s easy to get caught up in the challenges and forget about the good things. Practicing gratitude can help shift your focus from the negative to the positive.

Gratitude is about appreciating what you have, rather than focusing on what you don’t. This simple act can help you maintain a more balanced perspective and reduce stress.

So how do you practice gratitude? It can be as simple as starting or ending your day by jotting down three things you’re grateful for.

It could be anything from a warm cup of coffee in the morning, a call with an old friend, or even just the fact that you made it through a particularly tough day.

Over time, this habit can help to cultivate a more positive mindset and a greater sense of calm, even when faced with challenging situations.

5) Deep breathing exercises

When pressure mounts, our breath often becomes shallow and rapid. This can increase feelings of anxiety and stress. But by taking control of our breath, we can reverse these effects.

Deep breathing exercises can slow the heart rate, lower blood pressure, and promote a sense of calm. They act as a natural tranquilizer for the nervous system.

Next time you’re under pressure, try this simple exercise: Close your eyes and take a deep breath in for a count of four, hold it for a count of four, and then exhale slowly for a count of eight. Repeat this several times until you start to feel calmer.

Adopting this habit can be a game changer when it comes to staying calm under pressure. It’s easy, quick and can be done anywhere, anytime.

6) Connecting with loved ones

Under the weight of pressure, we often isolate ourselves, battling the stress alone. But reaching out to our loved ones can provide us with much-needed support and comfort.

A heartfelt conversation with a friend or family member can remind us that we’re not alone in our struggles. Their words of encouragement, a shared laugh, or even just their listening ear can make a world of difference.

Remember, it’s okay to lean on others when things get tough. We all need a little help sometimes, and there’s no shame in that.

When you’re under pressure, don’t hesitate to connect with your loved ones.

You’ll be surprised at how much lighter your load feels when shared with someone who cares.

7) Journaling

I’ve always been a bit of an overthinker. My mind tends to race with thoughts, especially under pressure. And sometimes, it feels like those thoughts are spinning around in my head, making it hard to focus or stay calm.

One day, I decided to try journaling. I would write down all my thoughts and worries on paper. It was almost like having a conversation with myself.

To my surprise, this simple act of writing helped me gain a clearer perspective on my situation. Seeing my thoughts and worries written down made them seem less overwhelming. It was as if by putting them on paper, I was able to quiet the noise in my head.

Now, journaling is a habit I turn to whenever I feel under pressure. It’s like a personal sanctuary where I can unload my thoughts and regain my calm.

If you find your mind racing under pressure, give journaling a try. You might find it as helpful as I did.

8) Nourishing your body

What we put into our bodies plays a significant role in how we handle stress and pressure. Consuming a balanced diet filled with fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains can boost our overall mood and energy levels.

On the flip side, processed foods, high in sugar and unhealthy fats can leave us feeling sluggish, anxious, and less capable of dealing with pressure.

So next time you’re under pressure, resist the urge to reach for comfort foods. Opt instead for a balanced meal that will nourish your body and mind.

Your body is like a machine. It performs best when it’s well-fueled. So make sure to feed it right, especially when faced with challenging situations.

9) Acceptance

The reality is, life comes with its share of pressures and challenges. Often, we add to our stress by resisting these situations, hoping for a different reality.

But acceptance can be a powerful tool for staying calm under pressure. It’s about acknowledging the situation as it is, rather than how you wish it would be.

Acceptance doesn’t mean resignation or giving up. It means understanding that pressure and challenges are part of life and we have the strength to navigate through them.

So when faced with pressure, take a moment to accept the situation. It may not change the circumstance, but it can change how you respond to it – helping you stay calm, composed, and in control.

Final thoughts: It’s within you

When we think about staying calm under pressure, it’s easy to imagine it as a trait inherent in some and absent in others. But the truth is, calmness isn’t an exclusive club. It’s a state of mind that can be cultivated.

It all comes down to our habits – the small choices we make every day. From the food we eat, to the quality of our sleep, to our exercise routine, each habit plays a vital role in shaping our response to pressure.

There’s an old saying, “Pressure creates diamonds.” And perhaps it’s true. After all, it’s not about evading pressure or challenges. It’s about developing the resilience to face them head on – calmly and courageously.

So remember, the ability to remain calm under pressure isn’t just for the few. It’s for anyone willing to cultivate the habits that foster resilience and equanimity. And you have that power within you.

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